Virgin here!
I’ve been in two relationships, both with girls who are virgins. My ex told me “your bulge against my thighs feels much bigger than my ex’s”.
Then the girl I’m with now told me her ex was bigger. She had the misfortune of walking in on him with his pants off and an erection (being a good Christian girl nothing happened), but she assures me he was hung. However, he is much shorter than me (I’m 6’6) and is VERY skinny.
She was being pretty objective about it and I wasn’t hurt at all. Luckily I’m pretty secure. Last I measured, fully erect, I was 192mm (7.5in) BPEL and 140.mm (5.5in) base EG. Don’t remember my mid and head EG, but it’s about a quarter inch smaller. Both measurements are accurate to the millimeter.
From both I’ve gotten comments like “huge cock” during dirty talk but I don’t take those to be objective comments.
Now, for the worse ones, in high school I’d always shower after practice and all the other guys made fun of me for having a small penis. I’m 6’6, and I remember one kind of rap song someone was making fun of me with, “His name is ****, what! He’s really tall, what! But you know what? What?! He’s extremely small!”
I laughed my ass off as at the time I was 7.2in BPEL and 5.25in mid EG, and I knew that both were decently well-endowed. I’ve always been a grower, not a shower. But still, yeah being so small flaccid combined with my height and the couple extra points I care is what made them make fun of me.