Hi guys, sorry for being away for so long.
I had to stop everything because my addiction in PMO. I got stuck at my addiction and the addiction increases my erectile dysfunction. So I’m in a process of full resting (no FAP, no SEX, nothing) for at least 2 weeks. But I’m struggling with the addiction. I will get there.
There are so many techniques when it comes to sex but “jack hummer” is also a technique. I think that the goal here is being able to do whatever we want. Circular, steady pressure against cervix, penetration targeting the G spot or targeting the back side of the vagina rubbing the penis as hard as possible against the clits… Each woman will feel each technique differently and our game is understand what works best for each woman we date. But there are, and my GF is one of them, some girls that craves for being dominated at sex. She likes roughness too and sometimes she miss it. She is not the only one I’ve been with that craves for those kind of rough strokes…
That’s why it’s important to me being able to do whatever I want. Rough fuck? Yes I can do it! Slow movements back and forward and sideways? Yes I can do it! I don’t want to be the guy that has a specific style of sex. I want to be the guy that can adapt to any woman and find whatever makes her crazy. Some times a woman will love a slow and more connected sex. Sometimes the same woman will crave for a rough, out of control and “disrespectful” treatment.
My main goal at sex is not only female orgasm, but the best sex she could ever have. Of course it’s my fantasy, but my dedication is often rewarded with many compliments, mind blowing orgasms, endless smiles and the feeling that she doesn’t need anything else in life.
I was a guy that had difficulty to orgasm. Sometimes I just didn’t. Till porn gave me erectile dysfunction. ED make me force an erection, by doing this, my brain learned to cum fast. From super confident, I turned in a guy that have to control ejaculation from the very start of penetration. Sometimes, from the foreplay if she is doing an oral sex.
After studying a lot, I learned that premature ejaculation is almost all the time happening at the brain. It’s our brain that must understand when it should trigger the orgasm and when not. And here is the trick. We can teach our brain to cum faster or later.
That’s the point. If you train your brain to get used to a specific stimulus, after a while, it will learn the pattern.
The training I’m proposing is using masturbation, with or without pornography, to make our brain gets used to a certain stimulus. Once this stimulus is already mastered, we can move to a bigger stimulus and so one. How big is the stimulus we wanna get used to? It’s something that each one of us decides. I wanna be able to rough fuck my girlfriend just the way she likes, hard, fast for long periods of time. OF COURSE she likes other things and we do a lot of other things, but right now, we both are missing the roughness.
So, about the method; DON’T RUSH! Every time we get too excited and rush things, we give to our brain the stimulus it’s used to and we don’t train what we want. It’s important to do one step at a time. During the training, our brain will ask for more but we should avoid it till we a sure that we mastered the stimulus we are proposing to our body. After conquering that, we can increase the stimulus, by increasing the hand’s grip, the stroke speed, whatever we are watching…