Newbie Struggles
Found this forum a few weeks ago and still not gotten over to starting mainly because of my procrastination background but also because I find the newbie routine really confusing.
So for the first thing hot wrap, my penis when flaccid is really small, when its fully erected its like 5-5.2 inches but when its flaccid its depressingly small I guess like 2 inches.. I grabbed a soaked in hot water cloth but it was really hard to wrap around my tiny thing as it was heavy and hard or impossible to wrap, what do I do in this case?
About manual stretching from the newbie routine. The guide title says 5 minutes manual stretch (ten 30-second stretches) <====. Note the ten 30 second stretches part. Then on the instructions and video you have downwardm upward sideways clockwise stretch. So 4 of those. Should I be doing each of those 4 steps twice or what? And even if I do that’s 8 30-second stretches.
And again on jelqing title is 10 minutes of jelq (two hundred 3-second strokes). Then on the guide there’s a few different types of jelqing one with an ok grip, overhand ok grip then C grip. I’m confused as to how many times I should repeat everything. Or should I just count 10 minutes? An experienced member told me to just do the C grip.
And then my biggest confusion comes to the kegels. Honestly, I feel mega dumb saying this but I have no idea how it’s done. At first, I thought it was some exercise then someone told me to go pee and then try to hold back my pee mid-ways and hold for 5 secs. I got even more confused there. So a kegel has nothing to do with touching your penis with your hands or pulling it or whatever? It’s basically waiting until you wanna pee and then going to the toilet, try to pee but then stop it mid-way and hold like that for 5 seconds? I honestly have no idea what my pee muscle is and the instructions on here about it are very hard for me to comprehend as I’m not native english speaker. So basically you have to locate where this muscle is around your penis and then do what? Guide says ”crunching it”? I’d honestly be so thankful if anyone can put it into my brainless mind how to do this as there’s no video about it and I’m very confused