About My Girlfriend

First of all is it possible for a guy 6in length and about 4.6in girth to make better sex with my gf then like a guy that’s like 7-8in length and 5-6in in girth? Cause I found out her ex was bigger but she says I’m better. She said it like this “you just work it like magic”. I’m crushed to find out she had someone bigger than me.. Should I be? We have a kid and I don’t wanna fuck this relationship up. And I’m wanting to do alot of PE’ing and when I jelq and go to buy weights for PE’ing she get’s upset and says whey in the hell are you doing that? I say to make my dick bigger and she says it don’t need to be. Is she lieing to make me feel good or is she telling the truth. She lied to me about his size b4 I had to find out through her gf.

I don’t know what to do or what to believe!

She is telling the truth, been bigger is not necessarily better if you are a lousy lover you could be a horse and been a lousy lover.

Knowing how to use your equipment (and hers) is always way more valuable then size as far as sexual satisfaction and gratification goes.

Making your cock larger should be something you do for yourself anyways. But being larger and knowing what you are doing is a double bonus for her.

It’s not a problem until you make it a problem.

And besides last boyfriend is just a little bigger than you, still in the average region. So don’t be insecure imaging if you where a 4” then you will have something to a least have a moderate concern but stills rule # 1 applies, be the the best lover you can be with your 4 inches.

Alright thanks guys

Should I ignore her being upset about me PE’ing

She’s thinks I’m doing it to get more girls

If this is the truth, then that is all that matters. That she lied to you about her ex:s size means nothing in this case - she may have lied because she too is concerned about not fucking up the relationship with (in her mind) bullshit issues. Which in that case seems like a correct assessment of the situation. OR she lied/exaggerated to her girlfriend about his size - this you never will now. OR her girlfriend lied to you because she has an issue with your happiness.

You won’t ever find that out, so screw it an be grateful that she thinks you work it like magic - not all men get to hear that, you know.

Since she knows about your PE, just tell the truth. You do it for self improvement and health, much the same as a program for keeping fit for the rest of your body. I hope you are on a fitness program. That makes it easier. :)

Funny that you say that finding out she had been with a bigger guy in the past crushed you. My present girlfriend (of 7 years) was a virgin when we started dating, and has never been with another guy. I would like her to fuck someone bigger (especially girth-wise) and report back to me as to whether it is noticeably better, so that I would feel more motivation to gain in the case that it was.

I mean, if PE was impossible, the case might be different, but it’s not; so, who cares?

Actually, it would be depressing if she said that any thicker is too thick, because then I wouldn’t have anything to strive for (in the PE department, anyway).

I had a nice sized penis (almost 7 inchs) and pleasured using it, but for me it didn’t feel right.

You PE for yourself and your self image. The partner may enjoy it, but it’s not the purpose.

Tell her you will quit PEing and do not make her upset and just do it secretly. or you can explain to her that you feel embarrrassed when other men see your unit in the restrooms, lockers, etc. and you are now PEing not because you want to get more girls.

I disagree - don’t tell her you are going to quit and then continue - then she’ll really think you are doing it for covert reasons. Now that it is out in the open, tell her you will continue whether she understands why or not, or discontinue and don’t do it in stealth.

This is WISDOM my friend.

I know plenty relationships that have been fucked up BECAUSE of the belief something was wrong….

not because of anything that WAS wrong.

Don’t ever bring it up again to her…continue to treat her well…work on your dick if it makes you feel better, but just drop the dick size thing with her…you’ll just make her like you less!

Just tell her that there is no one else but her.

Tell her that it makes you feel better about yourself, but as far as others…you have no interest.

But only tell her that if its true…then say it that way.

A girl I used to mess around with told me this. “It’s not the size of the wand, it is the magic you work with it.”
Now this chick was a straight up slut! She always carried a backpack around that had dozens of condoms and lube in it.

So try not to worry about it too much. Many people forget that not only do you fuck a woman’s pussy, but you should also fuck her mind!