Praseo Congrats on your gains! You’ve worked very hard and it has paid off.
However, that doesn’t give you the right to
- insinuate that others in this thread are liars when they say they satisfy their lovers
- Call other members "diminutive" when they are solidly within average range. This points to an unrealistic understanding of real world penis size.
- Insult those who have lesser stats than you as "malcontents" or filled with envy. Not every guy wants or practically needs the same thing that you want.
- Definitively assert that 7MSEG is the "ideal" size for all women (Google my husband boyfriends penis is too large for me)
That’s really not how we treat each other here at Thunders.
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But now to a bigger issue. I am concerned that you are being driven by BDD, and that is a tough situation to be in. We all have a little bit of that. But you may have a lot of it.
In one of your posts you wrote:
Originally Posted by Praseo
Are they lying, too? The only way to establish the veracity of their statements is to continue PE until the "perfect" comments reach a verifiable apex. I’ve realized through mulling the issue over in my mind is that the Rubicon, whereafter crossed negative comments become more common than positive ones, is at approximately 7" in circumference.
Once you stop at 7MSEG, maybe they will still be lying? It is possible 8" would be better. Or maybe 9"?
At what girth will you really be satisfied that your penis is perfect?
I am not trying to be sarcastic here. I am trying to point out that you may be driven to a large degree by Body Dysmorphic Disorder. All of us guys here have a bit of BDD about our penises. So please take it in the spirit that it is intended. Advice to a thunders brother.
I am sure you are familiar with the concept of BDD, but here’s a quick summary for those reading the thread who may not be. This is from the Mayo Clinic:
Body dysmorphic disorder
Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
Originally Posted by Mayo Clinic
Body dysmorphic disorder is a type of chronic mental illness in which you can’t stop thinking about a flaw with your appearance — a flaw that is either minor or imagined. But to you, your appearance seems so shameful that you don’t want to be seen by anyone. Body dysmorphic disorder has sometimes been called "imagined ugliness."When you have body dysmorphic disorder, you intensely obsess over your appearance and body image, often for many hours a day. You may seek out numerous cosmetic procedures to try to "fix" your perceived flaws, but never will be satisfied. Body dysmorphic disorder is also known as dysmorphophobia, the fear of having a deformity.
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You may obsess over any part of your body, but common features people may obsess about include:
Nose
Hair
Skin
Complexion
Wrinkles
Acne and blemishes
Baldness
Breast size
Muscle size
Genitalia
The body feature you focus on may change over time. You may be so convinced about your perceived flaws that you become delusional, imagining something about your body that’s not true, no matter how much someone tries to convince you otherwise.
More at the link. Bohm has also put together some articles specifically about Penis Body Dysmorphic Disorder here:
Small penis (Body Dysmorphic) disorder
I am not a psychiatrist, however there are many statements in your post that indicate that you may be saddled with a fair amount of Penis BDD:
- you talk about your nagging feeling of anxiety coming from naive viewing of pornography
- you felt that people were deluding you when they told you that you had a big dick
- as you grew, you felt people were being even more deceptive to you about your flawed penis
You started PE with an objectively very large penis. You have made it even larger with hard work and dedication. Again I congratulate you. It would be much better for you in the long run if you could just come to grips with this: You have a very very very large penis.
You need to accept this in your head, realize it, and own it. It doesn’t matter what people say or what they don’t say.
Believe it.
The size of your penis is not the problem. Your penis is fine. And it is very very large.
The concern about getting external approval is dragging you down. Because in your mind, you will always think they are lying.
Believe in yourself.