Any chance of satisfying with only 4.5 girth

At 6 inches BPEL by 4.5 girth my dick is obviously fairly pathetic, well at least the girth anyway. I’ve been doing newbie routine for 3 weeks now which I’m optimistic about considering others have had incredible gains. I’m very determined to gain but aware that it could be a long way off until my tool is something to feel OK about.

The real question is to other guys that started at 4.5 girth or somewhere close, and to how this went down with the ladies?

At nearly 20 despite having other things going for me, and having been told I’m good looking quite a few times, I remain a virgin due to this major insecurity.

Everything I read on women’s forums, the internet, overhearing girls talking, only justify my fears further with constant emphasis on importance of girth.

It would be great to hear from other guys with similar dimensions as I don’t know whether to just wait until gains, as the thought of being told I’m unsatisfactory and inadequate down there would destroy me.

Sorry for the rant but you can’t exactly talk to your friends about this sort of thing and thunders seems a very supportive community.

You can satisfy a girl with that girth bro, you have a good size. The only pathetic penis is one that does not work in my opinion. A common response to this which I think is valid, is girls usually finger themselves to orgasm with one or two of their fingers, which is smaller than 4.5” girth.
I started near your measurements and now I am having some girls think I am huge, so you are easily in the range of becoming on the larger side. Those gains however are probably a long way off like you said, so make sure you get the right mind frame and focus on doing PE for the long haul, not expecting to pull a giant cock out of you in a month and then quit PE forever.

When I had my pre-PE size cock, the girls I laid with enjoyed having sex with me, and I gave them orgasms. But I had only been with virgins before I started PE so this may be a huge factor, since the girls had only known my cock. So I suggest you go out and find a beautiful virgin and take her to wife so you never have to worry about not pleasing with your specific size. :)
Something I just realized is I gave more girls orgasms when I had a normal sized cock than I do now. lol

Try not to put so much importance on the size of your penis, it will cause many unnecessary problems. If the girl likes the guy who is attached to the penis is what really matters.
If I am really into a girl, I am going to enjoy sex with her much more than sex with a girl I really do not care for, and I am not attracted to mentally or physically, even if she has a much tighter pussy.

I started off around the same size 4.75 girth and to this day I never got a complaint to this day. I been with more women than I can count. To be honest with you I never thought of myself as small I just knew I wasn’t big. I always been able to make them cum, you just need to be confident about what u got because if you are insecure women can sense that and that what’s turns them off. Women for the most part are pleasers so they get off on seeing you enjoy yourself so enjoy what u got and be happy for any gains you get from pe. For the time being work on foreplay, lasting awhile and fucking their brains out and I can’t see you having any issues with the ladies.

Remember that 90% of a woman’s success in having an orgasm … is up to her.

Also, and equally important, is that 90% of your success in the sack happens before you get in the bed. THis is what helps the woman to be ready to have incredible orgasms.

When you get down to it, the physical act of sex is about as simple as it can be

90% of your success in the sack happens before you get in the bed? Elaborate..

Total bullshit, brother.

That is the girth I had during my single days, and I pretty much rocked the world of every girl I slept with. When I ‘hinted’ to one girl that I was "small" she got a dreamy look on her face and said "trust me you have nothing to worry about."

You are basically caught in the trap of too much naive viewing of porn, limited real world experience, and believing every thing you read on the internet.

First try to get a realistic view of your penis. It is NOT "pathetic." See stuzilla’s thread:

Penis Size - A realistic view

Then read my thread:

Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB

I kept my wife satisfied with a 5.5” BPEL by 4.4” MSEG for 40 years. She is now enjoying 6 x 5 and has not yet indicated she has noticed the difference.

Like others have pointed out, you have normal dimensions. You have all what you need to satisfy completely a woman.

Then stop reading or listening misinformation. Thunders is one of the few place where you can have real disinterested informations about size.

Just recently my girlfriend told me, by accident and without the purpose of hurt me, that I’m small (and I’m not, even if I’m smaller than you, but still in the normal range :) ) and six days later, doing love, I made her climax three times in the time I come one, and not with hand or mouth, but with my beautiful normal penis.

Self esteem is what you need. And this is a great place where you can find it.
Plus you can also make your penis bigger.

So your penis is not pathetic. Just be more confident in yourself. That’s the most important thing.

Holy shit you guys really mean most women don’t obsess about size? OMFG!!!! Noooooooooooooo!!!!!

:D

Young girls obsess over size from my experience and when I say young that’s under 24. Its usually women that haven’t had too many huge dicks or stories of their friends bragging about their sex life but the women that been with a few big guys say big hurts and would prefer one just a little bit above average not much. I would say that 7x5.5 is ideal for any women and 9x7 is ideal for us men.

By the way I’m going for what’s a little bit more of what’s ideal for me.

While an increase in girth is something I pursue, it’s not the end all. I think that you’ll have no problem pleasing a woman. I use on or two fingers on my wife giving her oral. That’s sufficient to give her multiple orgasms.

I started with similar measurements as you VeinGain (4.5 girth) and I’m going to have to agree with what everyone else has said already. First off, our size isn’t pathetic, it’s actually average. I know how you feel when it comes to being insecure about it because I once felt the same way. At times it even made me less aggressive and scared about going to bed with women. What I found though was that I could please women pretty well with what I was packing. I have been dating a woman for 2 years now and she cums before me 9.5 times out of ten. She also has multiple orgasms on the regular. So don’t be nervous or self conscience about it because there are many dudes out there who would like to have 6” wieners. Plus you can always look for info online about pleasing girls with your fingers and mouth too, I really recommend this approach! Good luck with your PE

Some food for thought. I had one of my boys stay with me for a couple months due to women problems long story short we tag teamed a few women so I found out he was working with a good 9x6. Over the coarse of the few months he was staying with me. He would have his girls coming over and I would have mine. When he had his girls in the next room I could barely hear the women getting too excited but when I brought my girls over It would sound like a porn movie lets just say neighbors I never talked too knew me on a first name basis. You can take that for what its worth.

I started with a tad more than that and never had a complaint.