Awkward first time PEing

So I’m new and I found myself doing PE for the first time. But the whole process just felt weird to me. For one thing, I wasn’t sure if I was doing the warm-up rite as I don’t know if you are supposed to be flaccid or erect when doing it. Second, doing the jelqs felt strange to me. Perhaps maybe I just need to practice and get more comfortable. Any advice or experiences that can be shared that might help?

Welcome to the Forum theghost!

Yes It does feel strange and weird. But most things are when you first try them. Particularly PE as it’s one of those “Forbidden” things to talk about.

Don’t worry too much about the warm up. Your unit will probably react when you start taking an intense interest in it. Which is what PE is all about.

Certainly the Jelqing will feel strange at first- It’s NEW!! And your dick is saying the equivalent of ‘What the heck is going on here’ Don’t worry you will feel all sorts of new sensations. Providing they are reasonably pleasureable don’t worry about them. But if you feel pain then that is a sign to ease off the pressure you are applying to your grip.

So take things easy, and the ‘New’ sensations will sonn give way to more pleasurabl feeling. But you can gradually build up the intensity as you get “Run in”

Good luck and Happy PE-ing

Petit

Thanks for the input petit. I was wondering, when you say my unit will react when I start take interest in the warm-up, do you mean an erection? And would the warm up be more effective if I have an erection?

Yes, I wrote reaction as your penis could do anything thing from showing a bit more life, to a full erection. But avoid doing exercises with a full erection as you can overdo the pressure and get red spots and bumps on your penis.

It will be a bit difficult to control at first but with a full erection just take jelqing very slowly and with very little pressure until yoru penis gets a bit bored and relaxes slightly,

But in no circumstances do bends with a full erection. That could bring bad trouble

Petit

I don’t think it really matters if you are erect while doing the warm-up, as long as when you have finished doing it you end up with a warm soft-ish feeling dick. You will be able to tell the difference by getting an erection in a cold place your penis will feel very hard.. When you try to jelq it, it will feel like blood isn’t even being pushed up. But when you are in a warm room, with a warmed up penis it will still be erect but you will definitely be able to feel the blood bunching up as you push toward your glands.. Warming up is just making the muscles not so tense, relaxing them so that blood can flow freely.

Thanks for the insight czepa

Hey bro this is my first time PEing to so don’t stress yourself. The senior and moderators are cool and help anybody who ask questions. This is an environment that helps guys who have goals, concerns, and seek advice to better themselves. Stick to the Newbie routine and you must learn to be patient because this takes time and it would be rewarding to look at your unit and say “I’m the Man”

I think it would take at least 2 weeks to start feeling comfortable and getting into a nice routine that you can do without having to concentrate too hard or worry if it’s right or wrong. If you stretch first, I think warmup would be better done flaccid. If you jelq first, maybe it’s ok to be erect while warming up. But it’s harder to cover the whole surface area of the dick with whatever your heat source is, when your erect.

Hey friend,

Welcome to the world of PEing.

This is the best place to feel relaxed and enjoy your dick growing.

I am relatively new here too.Being jelquing for 3 months and it’s still feeling strange.

I guess, it doesn’t really matter if you warm up flaccid or erect.

I have the opposite experience, PE comes naturally to me. I don’t find anything awkward about it.

If it’s worth anything, today was my 5th day jelqing and each time I’ve gotten more comfortable, starting from the first time I actually tricked myself into feeling sick and dizzy to now I’m just like “Yea! Awesome! OH CRAP did I pull too hard? Nah. Yea! Awesome!”

Ahahah nice post OneNightStand, I lawled. Anyways, Yeah, I’m on my 4th day [Rest], and I have gotten comfortable with it. I found yesterday that it came naturally.. I dunno if this is just because I have been masturbating since I was 7, or what, but yeah. It does get easier, and eventually feels good. You’ll see; don’t give up! :D

Just a little reminder to you guys: Don’t jelq erect.

This is how most new people to PE sustain their first injury/decreased EQ.

I’ve also read that it’s best to ease into stretches in order to prevent pulling too hard too fast.

Ok this will be my 2nd time trying and I was wondering.when jelqing, does each stroke count as a rep or does it only count after both hands have made the stroke?