Completely New - Various Questions

Hey guys. Totally new to the game and have been dying to try for a while. I’m 100% committed and will be for quite a while. I’m starting out at roughly 5.5 inches erect and in all honesty would be comfortable with something like 6. Anything after that is just gravy. Here are some questions I had after reading/watching most of the material.

1) How hard do you have to pull when doing manual stretching?

The reason why I ask this is because during the manual stretching videos it appears as though the demonstrator is trying to pull their dick off. Am I just supposed to pull as hard as I possibly can? Or am I supposed to pull until the point of mild hurt and then just follow the rest of the instructions.

2) Fixing the curve?

I have a very prominent upward curve. From what I read about the stretching it appears as though it can be fixed by stretching it the other way. Should I put more emphasis on the downward stretch as opposed to the upward direction? Or does it fix itself all out in the end with equal stretching?

3) How hard do you pull on the jelq?

The guy in the video looks like he is physically pushing the blood from his penis all the way to the tip of it. Is that how it’s supposed to be done? To do that how hard does the grip have to be? In his case it looks like he is pressing as hard as humanly possible.

4) Getting semi-hard?

Most of the instructions say that it is important to get “semi-hard” as opposed to hard when performing the routines. Any advice on how to go about doing that? If I watch porn I imagine I’ll get rock hard. I know this question is completely based on the person that you guys may just laugh at it but ANY advice is appreciated.

Thanks in advance fellas. If any of these questions were answered in depth in the FAQs feel free to reem me out.

Hi crazysoup. I’m new here also an doing a test with sperm pills. Just to see if this works. About your questions, I would say, answering your points:

1)it’s a bit like bodybuilding. If this doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t progress.
2)upward curve. So I suppose it doesn’t hinder during sex. It’s not like you’ve a 90° curvature going left or right on the same horizontal plan. Upward curvature looks ok to me for missionary or doggy style positions; I’ve seen many vids with actors demonstrating upward curve on youporn w/o having a problem.
3)don’t know
4)it comes easier as you get old. At a time, it’ll even become too easy. Don’t ask for it :-) Tip: watch porn and when you ‘re hard enough, think about your boss.

The guy in the video is definitely squeezing his penis with way too much force it has bees said many times before. As for how how much force should you apply well imagine a stick covered in honey you are trying to get the honey off the stick with your fingers start with that but everyone have to experiment and learn how to jelq themselves until they get the right feeling.

Wow. PE should not hurt especially if You are a newbie. If it hurts stretch with less force.

Good luck!

Try this excellent article:

Jelqing & Stretching 101

And this:

Jelq and Jelqing