Getting your dick to feel normal again

Hey, weird question but basically had a romping section with a girl. When about to cum, I stopped, then got soft, went again and again and again. Never came. Got blue balls.

Saving up to cum in 2 days time to blow a real load.

The problem is my dick doesn’t feel normal if you get what I mean. I’ve been jelqing today. Any hints/tips/massages? Right now feels a bit too stiff.

Thanks.

Massage your balls so that they are not sore from not ejaculating

Sounds like you overtrained. If you’re stiff when flaccid (kind of a heavy and numb feeling), you need to let it rest for a few days.

Did you warm up properly / enough it sound like you didn’t. Maybe you just need a few days rest

Over did it. Use a hot rice sock wrap for awhile. Take a long hot bath and the rest of the week off, then start slow again on the following week.

Take some time off, you over trained.

(P.S. half the time I masturbate, I stop before blowing a load. My dick feels normal. Overtraining has made it feel abnormal though. That’s why I said what I said)