And there is nothing more powerfulll in this context then dating and hitting on taller girls.
Of course some woman have stupid beliefs that with heels they will be taller and thats not good(WHY?)
If you commmand her to get lower to kiss her then there is no problem and some girls around who have that belief will like that a lot. If you are insecure and akward about her beeing taller then it will be.
If a girl makes fun of it in a playfull way and you reacting butthurt will put your chances at 0. Not because you are small but because you feel bad about beeing small. Your dick wont then change a thing. Stand tall behind what you are. I told a girl who was like one head higher with heels..”Horizontally height doesnt matter at all right?” and she later said I was right.