Senses
No, BC kegels should not be felt in the butt.
King Snake
Yes, simple answer, they do improve EQ.
Hopeigrow
Kegeling is an art and requires quite a little time and dedication until you can do it correctly. I am myself not yet mastering all my pelvic muscles, but not willing to give up so I train and train and train.
I recommend focusing on the BC muscle as first step. It is easy to locate: try to stop in the middle of urinating. The muscle you use to do so is the BC muscle.
I have a daily schedule of BC exercises:
5 mins of short contractions, 10 secs hold, 5 seconds release.
5 minutes of quick, 1 second contractions.
5 minutes of long contractions, 50 seconds hold, 10 seconds release.
I think you should start with the short and quick ones and after 2-4 weeks you can add in the long ones. Try to do Kegels in a disturbance-free zone, because it is easy if you can relax and concentrate on what you are doing.
I like to do them during my frequent train rides. Earphones, soft music and always with an eye on my wristwatch. And try to breathe regularly and without effort while kegeling.
And yes, as EQ will improve quite fast it can be a little addicting :-)
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