If I can't be helped I feel like I don't want to live

My name is Chris I’m 20 years old 5’10 and 127 pounds and I’m almost done with trying anymore. There are a lot of factors as to why I’m down but this is a huge part that eats me alive everyday of my life. If you going to post I’m stupid or crazy cause I want to die over this go ahead but it won’t change anything. I’ve never had sex in my life and maybe never will cause of how I feel about my girth. I’ve been at this for three months and I just don’t understand how to gain girth. I understand that P.E doesn’t’t work for everyone and that three months is not a lot but since I never get a bigger post girth, and it seems you must have to gain I just don’t get it. If P.E doesn’t’t work for me I can’t live with that.

I’ve tried wet and dry jelq and almost every girth exercises listed on here and other websites and no matter what I NEVER get a bigger post girth. I’ll do my workout get erect and it’s still the same at 4.25. I’ve tried different days on and off, took a week off and tried again but still nothing. I’ve done it for 20 minutes to over an hour and still the same. Is getting a higher post girth mark a must for gains? If so I’m willing to do anything no matter how extreme.

I’ve thought that maybe my body is just so skinny that maybe I can’t gain girth but who knows if that is true. I’ve thought that maybe I can’t do the jelq grip properly cause of my small girth, I’ve read on here of people that had this girth and gained but I just don’t understand.

I do appreciate anyone if they do post telling me the world is more than how I see it but my mind is set and either I figure this out or I’m done. I will gladly answer any questions that might help solve my problem. Please anyone give me some hope.

First of all, nice to meet you. Second of all, please don’t be stupid enough to actually consider ending your life over it. If you had no penis at all, then I would most likely agree that life would be a great struggle. Since you have a penis, and it works it gives you no reason to do such a dramatic and extreme exit.

Starters, have you tried clamping? Maybe your routine is not intense enough - post girth is usually larger due to the strain it has undergone and the fact that any part of your body fills with blood to repair itself. I would assume post girth is required to show you that you are being as intense as necessary, I would advise reading up on every technique a good few times so you completely understand it - and be as intense as you need to be until you reach that post girth size. You have potential as a noobie to gain at least an inch in girth - which would most likely set you on the road to victorious sex. I don’t actually see why you haven’t had sex, is it because of your girth that you choose not to have sex? Maybe you’re too insecure to approach women because you feel like they will comment negatively?

All I can say is, don’t you dare top yourself over your dick - at the end of the day sex is not EVERYTHING. Even the smallest guys can have great sex, it’s not always the size - it’s the way you use it. A female only actually needs 3 inches in length to obtain an orgasm, so what is your length?

Can you be more precise with your measurements and tell us your flacid length/girth and your erect length/girth and your goals?

Without sounding rude, do NOT feel sorry for yourself - if you truly are determined to get bigger, you’ve come to the right place. We will help you all that we can.

MitchC.

Whilst I don’t have any advice for you, I’m new here.

I’m sure someone else will.

But don’t be so hard on yourself.

Sex isn’t everything mate.

Yeah, it’s good, but it’s not everything in life.

Just hold on a bit longer, and I’m sure someone will reply with some advice for you

Do not let your size get in the way of how you lead your life. If you don’t think your dick is big enough, do PE. Dedicate yourself to getting a bigger dick. If PE doesn’t work, you can be a great lover anyway. Sex is not only penetration. If you don’t think your body is big enough, get a gym membership, start eating more and work out. You can change almost everything in your life. Especially the way you think. If you think positively, you will notice that everything you do also will reflect that positive mindset. You are the master of yourself!

If you want to get more girth, I suggest you do a search for ULI squeezes, jelqing and clamping. Getting girth can take a lot of time so you have to work smart. There is a page here on Thunder’s that describes some of the techniques, including instructional videos.

I also suggest you do not measure too often. It will probably just dissapoint you. Set a goal and work towards it, it makes it easier to stay on track and stay motivated. Get a routine and try it. If it doesn’t work, move on to the next one.

Dude, my girth is less than yours. Trust me, it will get better. I haven’t seen any appreciable girth gains yet either… just length. Women are more interested in physical attractiveness, personality, etc… There are some women who care about dick size, but fortunately if your average or close to you’ll be ok.

Yeah, we’re both a little “under average”. But be patient and stick to PE. I never had any problems with women saying I’m too “skinny”. My wife enoys sex very much. If you have good oral skills and can give your woman an orgasm they’ll be more than pleased. AND they’ll enjoy intercourse with you!

You’re only 1/2” away from most guys. Don’t give up the PE quest! It will come. Be consistent. I believe my tunica is very tough which is why I have difficulty with girth gains. My penis gets extremely hard and I can almost feel that its going to take more time jelqing to “soften” the tunica. The CS feels like iron pipes.

Don’t get down man! Be a PE warrior! Be consistent and follow the newbie guidelines… then you can advance to clamping, hangins, uli’s etc…

It will improve!

Jelq at a higher erect level and try peweights its a site that can help you buy the equipment to gain girth.

Take it easy man, being in a hurry can cause injury.

However there is an exercise I discovered on this site that seems to jump start girth, but it is a little extreme, and one guy on the thread mentioned getting an injury from it. However, done correctly it is in my opinion better than clamping in that it is inherently safer. But only when done correctly.

The exercise is the O-bend (named after Mr.Orange). Now the only thing is, I am not sure if 3 months of jelqing is counts you as out of the newbie stage yet, and this is not an exercise for an unconditioned penis. Also, the exercise has never been popularised because it takes effort and more importantly, it needs to be done differently depending on if you are a grower or a shower.

I have actually been meaning to put up a thread on the O-bend, as I have spent some time, ahem… researching this. I feel it is important to get the routine right, and mix it in with jelqs to get the maximum effect. So you can do a search on O-bends, and read Mr.Orange’s thread. But if you can hang on a few days, you can read my thread. If you want, I can PM you when it is done.

My wife is here in the kitchen as I type this, and she says she will happily shagg you - because you’re 20! She said she doesn’t care how thin your dick is. I am 41, so you see I just can’t compete. I know a lot of guys are convinced that ALL women want size, but it just is not the case. Sure they will enjoy feeling filled up but women have a whole check list of things to look for in a lover, and dick size is low down the list for most of them.

A young woman who is tight might actually prefer your size if she is inexperienced. Women in there 40s often like cock, and a lot of them like my wife here, are happy to sample the variety that life offers. :)

Did you get any length gains from PE?

Be patient. PE takes time and dedication. It’s a long game and cannot be measured in terms of days, or even weeks.

If you want gains you should stick to a simple routine for a few months (don’t change it because it doesn’t seem to be working) before you can assess whether or not it’s working for you. Serious gains can take years of consistent effort, so stick with it. For girth gains there are all kinds of exercises but I don’t think anything can top the Jelq — learn it well and do it regularly.

Try measuring only once a month otherwise it’s difficult to judge progress.

Believe me — if you stick with it you will gain.

In the mean time, here is an exercise, that might make make you slightly thicker at the base, which if it works will boost your confidence. I say might, because the main way it works is to boost EQ. If you are a 20 y/o then your EQ should be pretty good already. Please do not over do this exercise, just build up slowly and monitor your EQ. It’s in this thread: My quest for PE knowledge - with conclusion!

Chris, you post that you have done PE for three months, but there’s no detail about your routine. Are you doing the Newbie Penis Enlargement Routine , or worked up to something comparable in intensity and consistency?

If you have not, try that to start. If you have, get into some of the more advanced stuff like O-bends, clamping and pumping. Don’t do them all at once. Pick one, start with minimal force and repetitions, and work your way up. Don’t hurt yourself. Also, if you have been doing the Newbie Routine, don’t completely abandon it when you start the other exercises. Stretching and jelqing go well with any of the more advanced exercises.

There are members here would would give an inch in length to be 20, 5’10” and 127 pounds. Work with what you have now, and you will improve.

Big-Dreams I used to feel down about my penis until I found this place, it will help you get what you need. Guys of all shapes and sizes have managed to make successful gains in both length and girth.

””“YOU CAN DO IT WE HAVE FAITH IN YOU”“”
SO HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF

Hang in there bro. There are always other options and paths to take. PM me if you ever feel like it, suicide has crossed my mind in the past too.

Hey Big Dreams, I have a little story for you that might help you in a couple aspects. Let me tell you that my starting stats consisted of an erect girth of exactly 4.5 inches and an erect length of 6.25 inches. I am not sure your length but just like everyone else here I wanted to make my penis bigger. Now what I haven’t told you is that when I first started having sex with my girlfriend I was not able to fit it in a couple times, and to this day still cannot fit it in occasionally(her hymen had also already been broken). I, like you, want more girth, but you would be surprised that 4.5 is not small at all. I have had sex with one girl and she cannot always take me in. On top of this, I have heard through the grapevine that when my girl and her friends have “girl talk” she has told them I’m not very long but am a very nice thickness. This just goes to show you that ideal penis sizes change by every female. I have always been scared to show my penis, but now I walk around my girlfriend completely naked now, and without doing PE I know I could never do this. Even though I have had minimal gains I find that just doing PE makes me more comfortable with myself. With all that being said, I think that if you do a few things you will have gains and it will affect so many aspects in your life that you will be very surprised.

1. Get a program, do it religiously. Train hard, train smart. Injuries will only hinder your PE journey.
2. Stay consistent and disciplined. Missing multiple workouts will not only slow you down, it also will make you feel like crap because you let yourself down.
3. Keep a log. This will help you to stay determined, not miss workouts, and you will get motivation from other members and just seeing that you are accomplishing something on your own while enlarging your penis.
4. Never give up. Never. That is the most important. Keep your head high, things will work out.

I think I speak for everyone when I say that we all want to see you on this board daily. We all want you to succeed, and we will all be here for you.

Baller… that was an excellent post!

Yeah. Inspiring. :)