I'm so paranoid about losing my gains.

I was decent sized before I started, about 7x5.4. Now I’m about 8x6 and growing fast, and I’m honestly terrified of going back if I stop PE. I feel that I will definitely have to PE for life, because I remember what it felt like to have sex when I started compared to how it feels now and it doesn’t even seem like the same thing. That didn’t feel like sex to me, this does. I don’t know how to describe it, it’s like I went from poking my girlfriend to stuffing her just from that 1/2 inch improvement and the EQ gains. That said I really have no desire to clamp/pump/stretch for a lifetime. Does anyone else worry about becoming dependent on PE to have good sex if they’re unable to cement their gains?

Hey man. So check this out. I’m 6x4.5. And all the sex I have feels like real sex. On top of that, 3 girls I have boned have told me their ex-boyfriends have all had bigger dicks but they’d rather f**k me.and one of them broke up with her ex to be with me. AND.I’m insecure about my size! So if you go from basically a huge wang, to a less huge but still arguably quite large, wang, you got nothing to worry about. Hope that helps a little.

patchukwurah,

When you are done with gains, you have to cement them. Not sure how you made your gains, but cementing from hanging is *relatively* easy - just takes time.

Hey Hallucination, cheers for the perspective. I know full well I’m lucky to have my base size, if this sounds like a troll thread its not. I just am finally able to feel like one of those pornstars I used to watch growing up, and I don’t want to go back. I know the unrealistic expectations from sex story is one that’s repeated all too often around here so I feel silly saying it. All the best with your pursuit of PE.

Hey Mr. Schlong, I’m certainly aware of cementing gains, but I feel like in order to fully keep those gains I’m going to have to maintain the amazing EQ I get from PE. It just sucks because my current routine is manageable when I’m not having sex, but if I’m railing my girlfriend in marathon sessions on a regular basis I’m not sure I’ll be able to keep up my current routine, as it becomes so much easier to overtrain even after a weekend with her. I also have some issues with skin stretching a few days after hardcore PEing, so I prefer to cut out all PE for 3 days before seeing her (long distance relationship, we see each other about two weekends a month). We’ll be moving in together soon and I’m hoping I’ll be able to get conditioned to having sex AND PEing several times a week without a loss of EQ. I’ve introduced her to the idea of clamping, she adores clamped sex, maybe I can get her to help with edging during clamp sessions. I’ve never told her I pump though, it seems less sexy than clamping, I don’t know how I’ll pull that off. I made my length gains from manual stretching and pumping, girth gains from clamping.

To maintain your EQ and gains for life, you only need to do a fairly light jelqing routine 3 or 4 times a week. It only takes a few minutes. :)

Hmmm. You actually seem like a pretty confident guy in this thread. Why in the world did you start the girth insecurity thread? If you have women leaving other men for your skills in bed, that case should be closed my friend!

Wow patchukwurah I’m glad reach those gains men, I’m sure you’re more confident when you’re have sex with you’re girl! What was you’re routine for length and girth? Have you done them separately?

And with you’re routine, I think you should find some private time when you can do you’re routine, probably when you’re girl won’t be home! Good luck.

I love how so many guys on here are hypocrites. It makes me laugh.

Just make sure you cement man. The last I didn’t do it and lost nearly all that I gained. It sucks. The problem with cementing is that you have no idea how long it takes to cement something.

Fortunately for me the answer is no. My routine is all erect/edging work so I actually get a bit sad when I can’t do it

I wondered the same when I saw that b/c I had just read his thread lol

Really? So the gains aren’t permanent?

The following is from: The most often asked and annoying questions!

12) What does ‘cementing gains’ mean?

When you make a gain, be it FSL or EL, if you stop doing PE it will likely go away. You need a few weeks more of continued PE to ‘cement’ the gain, so that it is permanent. To do this, continue with the routine that got you the gain in the first place. After reaching their goals, most people taper off PE, dropping the amount they do slowly over a period of months to make sure the gains are cemented. This is called the maintenance period. Some will continue to do PE forever, even after reaching their goals for penile health and flaccid hang. Or just plain addiction.

As you age, your EQ usually drops slightly. If the penis isn’t getting ‘stretched’ internally by the pressure of great EQ, to the same proportions as it was when you reached your goal size, the collagen will adapt - it is a highly adaptive tissue. As long as you are still getting erections, you will maintain most of the size you gained, but you are likely to lose a little if the tissues are no longer reaching ‘full’ size.

A light jelqing routine provides both great continued EQ, and the regular tissue expansion that ensures you will never lose any size. So it makes sense to keep doing it.

You don’t need to do a lot!