Is this BPH? I'm 27.Flomax, freq urination, low sex drive, ED, PE, weird mini-O

Over the summer, I had frequent urination, numb/burning sensation to urinate all the time, low sex drive, a bit of ED especially before sex, and premature ejaculation during sex (after needing viagra). I thought this may be due to something I am doing while masturbating, perhaps too fast/getting aroused too quickly, or kegeling while doing it, I wasn’t sure. In the past it seems like I would have all those symptoms I listed if I went a period where I was masturbating a lot and finishing faster, but it lasted maybe a day at most.

Then for a month or two, all those problems went away. All was good.

However a couple of weeks ago, it came back. I tried Flomax which seemed to work fine, sometimes I had none of the bad symptoms, other times its there but not anywhere near as bad as the symptoms could be. The drug working some leads me to believe it has something to do with the prostate. Luckily I don’t suffer side effects. Sometimes if I take Flomax I don’t need it a few days after.

One thing I noticed that triggers the symptoms to come back is that my penis will have some mini-orgasm almost or some kind of kegel. Like there is one involuntary pump and a very slight feeling of orgasm, that I’m not sure what triggers it. Could be more often when laying down a certain way, or the way I’m situated that adds pressure to my penis in a way that triggers it. After that, it seems almost certain that all those bad symptoms come back. Does this happen to anyone? This happens on Flomax as well, but not as much. When I am not on Flomax, it is more frequent along with all those bad symptoms.

I have tried Pygeum at 130mg a day, doesn’t seem to work. Don’t want to take Flomax forever though I don’t have any side effects currently besides slight stuffy nose at times. Really want to fix this for good.

What’s wrong with me?