"Kegel Muscle" BC or PC Flexing During Sex

I’m not sure if the muscle used to make the cream snake “jump” is PC or BC, but that same muscle (which is used for kegels, as we all know) always gets flexed and held that way for me during sex. I guess my member is sensitive, so when I’m getting anything done to it, I involuntarily flex the muscle, and it’s hard to get it to relax, if I can at all.

If I pause during sex, I can, but while pumping away, it feels like it’s constantly flexed. This is both good and bad. Good, because I can continue without worrying about cumming too soon, but then when I want to cum, I can’t always do it. There are times when I can in a minute, even after I’ve jerked off all day. Others, moderate times. Then others, I take an hour (luckily the girlfriend doesn’t mind the repeated bouts of tantric love-making), or don’t do it at all.

Plus, I sometimes begin to lose my stamina and can’t stay hard, but is that normal when you’re A) sweating like a dog, B) out of breath (and likely out of cardiovascular shape) and C) have been having sex for 30-40 minutes or more, with you being on top doing all the work? Or am I the only one who has that?

No one?

Chthonian,

It’s the BC.

No you are not the only one.

Read some of the MMO threads to find out more about control.

Is that everything? I’m confused. There are two questions in the thread and they both seem rhetorical. Maybe that’s why you haven’t had any responses (I didn’t respond the first time I saw this thread).

Oh, sorry - I was looking to see if I was alone in both departments (flexing of BC during intercourse & stamina problems). I mean, the stamina thing could be lack of general conditioning (although I’m a pretty accomplished olylifter, I don’t do anything cardiovascular often, if at all) and I was wondering if I should throw in something like interval sprints. They’re my choice of cardio - I don’t do distances. I’m an explosive athlete. The reason for my lack of conditioning was due to time off from a back injury.

So, I wanted to know if it was normal to have problems focusing, staying hard or just staying into it, after 20-40 minutes of sex (intense, rough, fast sex too, nothing slow and very little pausing), and when you’re sweating like an animal (I.e., dripping on eyebrows, distracting like that). Once I get to a certain point, I no longer care to cum, because I just feel beat, like I ran some sprints. ;)

So is that normal? The more I describe it, the more I think it’s pretty normal for someone to lose interest and get tired and lose a full erection when you’re doing all I described.

And the other question was if the BC muscle is normally supposed to flex during intercourse, or if I have to learn control. It feels like something involuntary, but maybe I’m not in touch with it. Any idea?

Oh, and what’s the MMO thread?

>flexing of BC during intercourse & stamina problems<

Smoker here. After 1/2 hr I like to take a cigarette break.

>So is that normal? The more I describe it, the more I think it’s pretty normal for someone to lose interest and get tired and lose a full erection when you’re doing all I described.<

It’s not abnormal.

>And the other question was if the BC muscle is normally supposed to flex during intercourse, or if I have to learn control. It feels like something involuntary, but maybe I’m not in touch with it. Any idea?<

I like to flex it during intercourse because the pulse can often be felt when accompanied by slow strokes.

>Oh, and what’s the MMO thread?<

Search on MMO, you’ll get it.