Here is how I learned ejaculatory control. I learned this in my early 20’s.
TRUST ME, this will work for almost all guys.
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Set your goal to jack-off without coming for 30 minutes. You are going to try to come close to ejaculating a few times during that time, but don’t until you hit 30 mins. Once you hit 30 mins, blow your load.
But once you can go 30 mins by yourself, you can last as long as you want with a partner.
The secret is learning about the sensations you feel, especially learning to identify what it feels like when you are about to blow a load.
This is why you are going to do this jacking off WITHOUT PORN. The porno will distract you from your own sensations.
If you want to watch porno while getting hard, that is fine. But once you are hard TURN THE PORN OFF.
You are also going to use LUBE EVERY TIME you jack off, because this will also help you focus on the feeling and sensation.
You do not have to be perfect, it will take time before you can reach 30 mins. If you blow a load too soon, don’t worry about it. Better luck next time.
Once you can reach the 30 minute goal, you can add time if you want to. I don’t know whether that is necessary. For me once I could do 30 to 40 mins, I had all the skills I needed for great ejaculatory control
For more details on how to do this, take a look at this article from the net I posted here:
sta-kool - Edging 101
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For background, you might want to read the first post in this thread, it explains what happens when you ejaculate:
Ejaculation Process