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So the other day I got teased because of my small dick. I girl that I had sex with like a couple monthes ago is now tellling people I have a small dick. It’s making me so angry because now girls will think I’m bad in bed automatically just because I have a small dick. This is just fueling my motivation, however, and one day I GUARANTEE I will have a seven inch dick. By the way I’m at 5’4 length and 4.6 girth. I started out at 5’ inch length and 4.5 girth and I’ve been PEing since end of September. The results are less than I expected but they are results none the less so I’m happy. I’m disappointed that my girth is growing less than the length. Is there anything I can do to increase my girth a little more? By the way, I’m doing the standard Newbie Routine. Should I move into more advanced routines soon?

I would only move on when the gains stopped.

Congrats on the gains! Maybe you did expect more, but most people don’t even know any gains are possible, and you have already gained more than many people that have tried PE! Keep up the good work. :)

Keep at the newb routines for another 3 months. Believe it or not, you’ll see better gains sticking with the newbie routine than moving on to advanced techniques for the first few months.

And don’t worry, at 5.4x4.6 you’re still in the ‘average’ catagory. As a bit of motivation for you, I was 6x4 when I started and reached a length of 7x5.125 at my peak(I didnt cement my gains, now I’m at 7x4.75). There are people that have done far greater but being that you’re not far off my starting size, I thought I’d share.

Just don’t let what the girl said get to you. Doing PE can screw with your mind as you can become obsessed with the size of your penis. You have taken the red pill by entering the PE realm, so try and keep a clear head.

Also, if you’re overweight, this will be great motivation for you to lose weight as you can gain nearly an inch if you have a large fat pad.

Good luck with your PE conquest, hope you stick with it.

Buddy, I’m sorry to hear about what happened, and I know you now have great motivation to stay dedicated to a PE routine. There are a couple ways you can go about getting back, also. You don’t have a small penis. It’s a little below average, but don’t worry, you can bring it up.

If you’ve been doing the newbie routine this long, and have been honest with it, you should be able to add to it and do a few of the more advanced excercises. However, you should have a better feel for how your penis responds and it’s general health, by now. Remember to listen to your penis! You don’t want to overstress it by doing too much, so pay attention and experiment with excercises with caution.

If you’re willing to be patient, working on girth might not be the best thing to do, immediately. I only say this because length gains tend to be more difficult with girth increases. It’s your call, however, and plenty of members have done the opposite, girth first and then tackling length.

I’d love to be able to help you more immediately with the girl issue; she sounds like a major bitch. The only thing I can think of is if people bring it up, just brush it off like it’s not true and paint her to be the liar she is. You’re about average, and you’re not small, by any means.

If you’re worried about being thought of as bad in bed, learn to eat girls out and other sexual techniques like you’re a Kama Sutra GOD. When the next girl you hook up with can’t stop singing your praises, you’ll have the last laugh.

Speaking of laughing, if you can just laugh at anything that comes from her, and slyly hint at her own faults, it might help. If you still talk, or CAN talk to her, you can always confront her and ask why she would say stuff like that. Be the mature one and don’t lose your cool. Point out, “I don’t say anything that would make you feel insecure, though I wouldn’t be wrong.” The ultimate goal probably shouldn’t be to get revenge, but to make her feel like the bitch she is. I did similar with a girl that was toying with my emotions and then telling people about the skeletons in my closet, and I definitely felt better than if I’d just flat out spread shit about her. I stayed above the childishness (which is surprising, if you know me) and made her feel the guilt she should have felt.

Good luck with all this, and if I come across as preachy, my apologies, but I’d prefer you feel better than feel justly revenged, not that the two can’t go hand in hand…

Note, what the other two guys said is probably better. Stick with the newbie routine until you don’t see any more gains. Sorry, I didn’t think about that part.

It is sad that girls deem five and half inches small.

I feel your pain man. I’ve yet to have sex, but girls I have dated in the past all seem to have had sex with guys that would dwarf even Ron Jeremy… that is according to them. In fact, that’s what got me to PE in the first place. Good Luck with your gains… and just stay consistent! Don’t jump around to other methods if something doesn’t give results in 2 weeks. It took me over 3 months before I saw my first quarter-inch gain.

Check out Dino’s thread, Is It In Yet???? .

If what you are doing is making it bigger keep doing it.

It seems like your in the same boat I am.

Bitches can be cruel no doubt. Just stick with the program and you will have the last laugh just don’t get to gung Ho that you hurt yourself.

I think the commander, Spektrum and protoNation have covered your questions and issues really well.

If you have been advancing with Newbie Routine and it’s working … well, you know what they say: “If it ain’t broke …”

I think it’s good you are focused, but the caution to maintain that focus without letting your anger and hurt feelings turn PE to an obsession is really good advice. As an obsession it could lead to overdoing it, and that is counter productive. Just do what is working for you and let that be enough.

I also think the idea of maintaining your dignity and refusing to stoop to her level is excellent advice.

Confront her directly if you can and ask why it is she needs to kiss and tell in such a malicious fashion. Maybe she’s angry at you and you’ll have an opportunity to clear the air. Or maybe she’s just really childish and obnoxious, in which case you can hint that the kiss and tell game can be a two-way street.

What if you were to do that? How would she feel? Etc.

You can also point out it’s really bad to get a reputation as someone who betrays confidence.

If you can do this with dignity and keep your cool it’s a way you can take the wind out of her sales.

Anyway, you’re doing really well. So you had the misfortune to hook up with someone like her? So what? To hell with her.

You’ll grow from the experience - in a few ways.

You know that Thunder's is on your side.

Congrats on the gains. Well done. :thumbs:

Man, fuck that bitch. Generally when people go out of their way to point out someone else’s so called fault it is due to their own insecurities. Perhaps she’s trying to cover up the fact that she has a cow pussy. The best thing to do is to shrug it off. If someone else asks you about it just tell them to believe what they want to believe. You could tell them a few details on the subject yourself but you would rather not waste your time on such childish things that should be private.

Just keep in mind that your penis size is in the average category so most of these guys and girls that are laughing either have the size dick they’re laughing about or they’re fucking some guy that does.

Keep your chin up and keep on tugging, perhaps sooner or later you will get the chance to fuck one of her friends that has heard the tale and then they can reveal the real truth. :up:

Remek,

I can’t speak for you regarding your situation, but most of the women I’m with appreciate the quality of sex versus how big your dick is. They also don’t want a “2 minute man”, especially if they’re not getting anything in return. The details were lacking, such as what led up to sex with this girl, where the sex occurred, what type of foreplay did you (and she) do, how long did the actual sex last, etc.

I’ve never had a huge cock and when it’s not erect, it turtles, making my flaccid pretty small. Right now my BPEL is 6.25”, and my flaccid length is 2.75” when turtled. What I’ve learned through my years of experience with women, is that sex is not just the act of screwing. Sex is more sensory to women versus physical for us. If you take your time with your woman and start out with a nice, long body massage and then slowly work your way into oral sex on her, she’ll melt in the palm of your hand. That’s when you’ve earned your reward of screwing the living daylights out of her! In my flaccid turtling situation, by the time I reach this point, my cock performs a Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde transformation to what I consider an “average” sized cock, just like yours.

Don’t let one girl’s words get to you. Take your time with the next girl you’re with. Spend 45 minutes giving her a back rub. Spend an extra 10 minutes getting her “ready” for oral by gently caressing that area, as well as other non-sexual parts of her body. Don’t make it seem like you’re only going for the T&A. Appreciate all of her. When giving oral, go slowly!! Her body reactions will tell you when to speed up. After oral sex, give her a couple minutes before you throw your cock into her. She’ll want that time to appreciate the massage and oral. Make the whole session last as long as you can and by the time you cum, she won’t care if your 4” or 12”. She’ll also tell her friends that you’re one of the best lays she’s ever had.

Wow, you guys are great. It’s nice to know that there are people that can help me out regarding these type of issues. Also you guys are a great motivation for me. Thank you.

So I will stick to the newbie routine until I stop seeing gains. This is what I thought but just wanted to make sure.

One thing I wanted to point out is that one should never lose focus of the goal. The mind if VERY powerful and you can will yourself to just about anything. I’ve heard the mind only uses 10 percent of it’s capacity so just imagine what could happen with more focus. Don’t do the exercises just to do them. Get into them. FEEL the exercises. Have FAITH in yourself that you will reach your goals eventually. I’m very fortunate to have already gained .4 inch on length, but I’m not done yet. I will not stop until I reach my goal of 7’. Also some people these days are not getting quality sleep. This past month I started to perform various breathing exercises to calm down and eliminate the thoughts and stresses in my mind. This helps obtain the BEST sleep possible, which can increase results as far as PE is concerned. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.

This girl is a total bitch. Word has spread even more since made this thread. I just laugh it off. I’m moving to a different state in about six or so monthes so I’ll be fine. By then I’ll have a six inch dick hopefully so I should be fine. Now that I think about it, however, I don’t think that my dick was my only problem. I lasted only about 10 minutes or so and I didn’t get her to orgasm or anything. Perhaps my technique is lacking. Does anyone know of any ebooks or websites that help with technique? Also I can see how massaging can have a positive effect. Any ebooks or sites for that as well?

Thanks again guys I really appreciate the advice and input.

A good comeback I heard recently on another thread (borrowed from Tom Arnold is):

“Even a 747 seems small when it’s plunging into the grand canyon”.