My Confession

I have to tell you all up front that I started PE w/Jelqing back in November of 2011. Last week while my wife and I were fucking she stated that I made her feel so filled. This really hit me as I had noticed she has been having more intense orgasms in the last month or so. I know my cock has grown and back in January I discovered this Forum and began to read about taking measurements. So I did. I took them a few times that week just to be sure I did it right. Here is what I’ll call my official weigh-in from January, 2012. (I use a 1” ID x 3/16” cross section O-Ring to hold my erection)
BPEL: 6”
BP FL: 5-1/4”
EG: 5-1/4” Mid length
FG: 5” Mid length

I measured again tonight March 15Thu.

BPEL: 6-1/2”
BP FL: 5-3/8”
EG: 5-3/4” Mid length
FG: 5-1/4” Mid length

I have done a little manual pulling on penis to help stretch it and tonight I started making a stretching device.

NOW FOR MY CONFESSION
I’ve been cheating on the jelqing by using the same above O-Ring with olive oil to do my jelq exercises. I run it up and down the length until it gets to hard to move it anymore as the skin wants to roll. I use both hand and work it as long as I can. Usually about 20 minutes and then I lube it good and masturbate the hell out of it. Along with this I jelq from below my scrotum with both hands using the fingertips and only progressing up to mid length as I don’t want my cock to get too big in the mid length only. So far, so good? I hope the stretcher gets me to 7” BPEL by July. For an old geezer I think I’m doing good and I have rekindled our lovemaking a little. 58 yrs old this year.

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That’s not cheating at all. Congrats on your gains, and for keeping it going at 58.

Your results are very encouraging! Makes me want to keep up my routine. I know what you mean about using an O-ring for jelqing. I tried the same thing using baby oil and one of those cock rings that has the quick release grip handles on each side. I could use the handles to move the ring up and down, and if I pulled the handles apart, it would ease up on the pressure, or if I released my grip on the handles, the pressure would become more intense. I think I had one of my biggest growth periods while using this technique. Damn thing broke a few weeks back and I haven’t had a chance to get another one yet.It lasted a couple years though so who can complain.

Very interesting about the O-rings. I think after 3 months or so of the newbie routine I may try that

Interesting technique!

So let me get this right, lets say I’m using my hand instead of the O-ring, I would start jelqing from the base to the bottom of head, and then I would reverse jelq from the head to the base. Is this what your doing?

What did you mean until your skin wants to roll, do you mean when your olive oil gets dry?

Thanks.

Thanks. My only concern is that it works.

_Phoenix_,

When I use the O-Ring it fits tight enough so you have to stretch your FLACCID penis to get it on and I push/pull it down to the base. (Without the olive oil I would probably not be able to get it on.) As I start jelqing both up and back down the penis becomes somewhat engorged so you can do a nice slow jelq and feel the O-Ring compressing/squeezing the blood out. After doing it a while it gets to sensitize me so that the penis becomes rock hard. At that point I run it with some difficulty all the way down the base as far as possible. The penis is ROCK hard as it has never been at this point and is super sensitive. (God if my wife could get past her hangups about using toys she would really enjoy it like this) Anyway! To answer your question about the skin rolling. If you were to do this you would see that the skin doesn’t want to slide under the pressure of the O-ring. You can see the meat under the skin slide past as you jelq and the skin at the top end stays on that side of the O-ring. I’ve pinched it a few times by accident and it wakes you up to the need to be careful. I’m continuing my basal jelq every time it’s convenient after urinating and the O-ring jelq. (I obviously don’t do this at the public urinals)

Hopefully I can start stretching/hanging soon.

Good luck all!

This is awesome. Thanks for the inspiration.

Congrats on rekindling your lovemaking with your wife.

Here’s to more gains and more lovin’

Thanks Eponymous! We were at the point in our relationship where she could take it or leave it. I would not label her as a horny woman throughout our 36 years of marriage. I guess that I’ve always masturbated on the average of every other day of my life. When we were in our early years she’d be willing to fuck daily and sometimes we’d carry on right through her menstrual cycle, at my coaxing as initially she thought it to be wrong and messy. (Messy? Yes. Wrong? Hell no as we both had wonderful orgasms then.) Age and our busy lives has taken it’s toll in the last 10 years. I have to work harder and longer on her to get her warmed up. It doesn’t help that her work day is normally 12 hours plus at least 2-3 days of 4-8 hour Saturdays each month. (I’ve even resorted to letting her know that if I didn’t know better I’d think she were having an affair. And told her to shed her panties so I could visually inspect them & gave myself a good nose hit. This actually helped warm her up! You never know for sure how they’ll react to stuff like that. She doesn’t know I’ve done that check many years earlier.)

So I’m sure this is getting boring to most of you so I’m going to quit “Confessing” for now. Have a great weekend. And keep trying for your goals!

Try doing it in the dark one night, with you ‘warming her up’ from behind her, then just slip your penis in - with the ring on! I bet she would suddenly lose her reservations about using the ring, even if she didn’t go for other toys!

I can’t help but laugh! I’m sorry. It’s just I can’t take her from behind behind because her back is messed up with degenerative disk disease and a car accident we were in back in the early 90’s. What is funny about it is that I talk in my sleep almost every night and she awoke to me saying repetitively, “Don’t hump the wife. Don’t hump the wife. Don’t hump the wife.” She woke me up with her laughing and I caught myself saying it. I will have to get her into it though because many times I have failed to hold my erection for her. I’ll have to convince her that it’s as much for me as it is for her because she thinks me going limp is no big deal. She usually has an orgasm just from me trying to keep it pushed in there. Thanks for the advice and I will try it on her again. She’s such a selfless & straight laced farm girl. My love at first sight!

“Don’t hump the wife” - That’s hilarious! :rolling:

Anyway, you’re not boring me at all. I hope to be married one day, so I love to hear from you married guys - I learn a lot.

I agree with firegoat; if you could find a way to just wear it and slip it in, without asking for permission, I think it would be best. At that point when she feels it, the part of her brain with the reservations will be deactivated.

Well… I didn’t use the O-ring this weekend but we had what I would say was our best fuck in 35 years of marriage. It started with a frontal attack with her on the bed cross ways so she was at the edge of the bed. Broad daylight. What a view. And after no PE since Friday and a morning screw on Saturday in which I only performed & brought her a double orgasm and left myself high & dry so to speak. I was rock hard looking down at her and rubbing my cock outside her vagina. When I finally penetrated I bottomed all 6-1/2” inches and she had no complaints. I could feel her squeeze me. We screwed for about five minutes like this and she finally asked for the top which means she wants to come hard. It took her about another 2 minutes and she was moaning in delight. Now it was my turn so I took her from behind and I could not believe how tight I felt in her soppy cunt. It was like never before and within about 50 fast strokes I was pumping it out of her ears. (Well it felt that way) I have never had an orgasm so intense. I thought it might knock me out. It has got to be because of the PE work and now that I’ve started hanging and BTB (behind the balls) jelqing. I know I’ve never had as much mass whether hard or flaccid. Thanks to PE I tried the jelqing. I used to think it was just a farce to think you could grow your dick. Not any more. And the other thing is my ED didn’t kick in all weekend. (I’ve eased off the porn and reduced my caffeine intake) Whatever it takes. Hey good luck to you guys and just so you know I almost got busted trying to hump the wife on Friday night. I caught myself before she woke up! :)