My introduction and condom size for 4' girth

You are over thinking stuff way to much the sex your size etc. Just go do it and have fun. When you get the chance and if your nervous and thinking about all this the girl is gonna pick up your insecurity and it is gonna cause the whole experience to be awkward. Performance anxiety. I know it’s hard but if you do fuck a girl do your thing fuck her like you got a ten inch dick.

You don’t come by chances to have sex, as a man you must lead women to sex.

What I would do is get dedicated to manual PE techniques (stretching, jelqing, edging, kegeling), learn about your penis and how it responds to stimuli, gain.

But at the same time you should seek experiences with women. Everyday there are opportunities, you just have to get out there (this is very ambiguous of course - I don’t know where you live or what your environment and surrounding demographics are, but I can say for certain that 1/2 of the human race are females so there are women around are you - and they want sex simply by the fact they are human). Realize that, in most cases, when a women is attracted to a man and thinks about what it would be like to fuck him - she hasn’t seen your dick. She already wants you.

Furthermore, you should realize that sex is a combination of physical and mental/emotional stimulation. You are focusing too much on the physical aspect. Learn how to bring more than just a penis to the show. Tell your women that you know you’re small, but you have esoteric knowledge on how to grow yourself to a bigger dick. Tell her you may not have a big one now, but you will in the future - and if she’s a good girl you may even give it to her :)

jdvert, how much time did it take for you to pass from 5 to 5,6?

It took me about 4 years. Girth came easier for me if I concentrated on girth I bet I could get to 6.0 mseg. I hope for length gains.

Yeah, good advice. You are right man, sex is for pleasure. Not worrying etc. I was forgetting that. “fuck her like you got a ten inch dick” yeaah! That’s the attitude I need.

Haha, thanks man. I was thinking exactly this the other day. When the girl is sucking or whatever, should I mention my dick size or just don’t mention it at all. I was thinking maybe is better not to talk about my penis at all.

4 foot girth!?! That’s impossible.

Hahahahaha Yeah… I only need more length so I can run using my left leg and my dick while my right knee rest.

Don’t talk about your penis size at all. If the girl says anything negative about it disregard it and follow all the sex techniques that I’m sure you have started reading about in sex books and the internet… If you can get a girl off repeatedly from technique, yet you are smaller than other guys she has been with who couldn’t get her off, I think you will leave more of an impression than a bigger guy would. When someone smaller does something equally as someone bigger, the little guy is regarded as enormously talented whereas the bigger guy is mediocre. In some divisions of competitive fighting there is an “absolute division” meaning all weight classes can compete as one class. People go ape shit for the small guys who try to take on bigger guys. They don’t even have to win, if they even hold there own the crowd remembers them over the big guy and if they do happen to do better then they are treated like a king or hero. I don’t see the relationship dynamic being much different than that sort of social dynamic if you display talent and show her a good time. The fact that you are small and sexually talented won’t get you know as the guy with a big dick, it will get you known in female circles as the guy “who knows how to use it”.

I shared my sexual experiences with you and I’m not sure if you listened. My MEG is about 4.3… I’m not much bigger than you, a girl probably couldn’t even visually see the difference or even feel it. I never can measure base girth right because I get scrotal skin in the measure, but I think its near 4.5 possibly smaller. I can successfully wear lifestyle condoms, but I’ve had condoms slip off when I was drunk or slightly started losing an erection, so its not like they fit snug they only fit just enough to work when I’m fully erect. I do kegels and have good erection strength and have been able to a keep the condom from falling off by kegel flexing during the periods when we transitioned positions or stopped because the girl got off and was temporarily too sensitive. So, you may have to order smaller condoms online, but who cares. You and I are very similar in girth and I have had great sexual experiences.

You may wonder if I’ve had good sex why am I on thunders? Its part of me coming to terms with my size, I’m in my mid twenties and never had an issue until the past few months due to some slutty and immature girl I dated. I dated this girl for 2 months and she made me incredibly uncomfortable by repeatedly talking about how big her ex’s were when we were in bed. I’ve NEVER been called small directly, but have been subject to 2 girls making the dreaded comparisons to the huge ex’s. It is what it is. People vary in size, I dated a 110 lbs ballerina and she was tight as hell. Sex was OKAY, I got more out of girls that were wider because they turned me on more and actually moved around with me, so its not like a freaking key fitting into a lock for an orgasm. As for my other experiences regarding my size, most of the girls I have been with never mentioned anything about it and we just had fun. One of the two girls was from high school and she never even had sex with the guy that was much “thicker” than me just gave him a bj and she was the absolute widest vagina I have ever encountered. The “10 inch” guy my last girl had been with supposedly couldn’t last more than 5 minutes and never got her off. She told me that I turned her on more than any other guy she had been with and was horny 24 hours a day around me. We fooled around for two months (bj’s, fingering, handjobs, ect) and its funny that the girl that made me most uncomfortable about sex never actually had sex with me. I refused to have sex unless she was on birth control and by the time she started taking it I ended the relationship. My size still bothers me a little because I know I’m under average, but fuck it my experiences in general have showed me its not a problem because I’ve remained confident and compensated through learning technique.

Moral of the story is work on your self-esteem, sexual technique, and ability to attract and arouse women. You don’t need a big dick, I didn’t even have an average one in terms of girth and I have done fine. You can excite a woman so much that you will be able to get her off with much less effort than others guys and you will appear to have amazing skills in bed when in fact you have great communication skills. Attracting and arousing women is like being a good storyteller, display passion and seek to instill an emotional response through the expression of your words and body.

And in the meantime, work your ass off tu build a nuclear missile :) .

wow! johndough123, thank you for sharing your expierences. And thank you for taking the time to write the post.

Yes, I’m stopping the whining. I will just have fun and work on my overall health.

You guys probably don’t know how much your posts are helping me.

I’m just pissed off lately because a girl that I was supposed to lose my virginity with is not answering my messages, etc.

That’s ok… I will just move on. Like a confucius quote:

It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. Confucius

Thank you all… I don’t know how to return the help you all have give.
Carlos

Your quote from Confucius was pretty helpfull, thanks.

Busted! You joined in 2007 as well which would make you 16! Moderators, oh moderators! ;)

Oh and wjug you sound like you have a good group of friends to support you, just go out with them and take the plunge, learn how to ‘seal the deal’ with a girl and get her back to your place.

I know that there is a lot of debate as to what average is, and I have posted my opinion on this several times in the past.

Op, all I want to say is that if you read around the internet and look at purely scientific sources, you will notice that most guys either lie or omit when it comes to penis size. I know it’s hard for someone who is honest or OCD to get their head around, but you are not as small as you think you are. Girls call guys penises small who are 7-8 inches long with large girth if they want to hurt them. Don’t look to this forum as a way of comparing your size with other people. I have said it many times that forums only attract the exceptionally blessed, and the exceptionally worried. Unfortunately it is too much of the former just looking for an ego boost.

Just remember that there are plenty of guys out there with a comparable size and most any experienced women that you get with has been with someone in your range. On top of all that you have a small frame and I have heard many of stories from small framed friends getting called large with a pretty average sized penis.