My wife says no

Hi all this is my very first post.

I’ve been doing PE for about 3 weeks now and I’m already noticing changes, EG feels more meaty, heavier, looks fatter and it’s got more vein’s. All this is great and encouraging but the wife doesn’t understand why I want to make it bigger, I’m 7” long by 5” in circumference and would like to get as big as possible. I think it would be ace to have a huge member, but the wife thinks I’m silly. I think she come round in a few months when she realises it’s for her as well.

I would love to hear any ones thoughts on this or anyone who’s been in a similar situation.

Thanks a lot this is a really amazing site.

Steamon,

Welcome aboard!

Ultimately you will want to temper your goals keeping in mind what is desirable for you and your wife. The nice thing about PE is it takes time and allows your partner to get accustomed to the changes. My fiancee swore I wasn’t growing and then I measured and we were both shocked. If you were to gain over night your wife may give you grief.

Take is slow and careful. Remember growth is a marathon not a sprint. Happy growing!

T.

Dude; are you doing PE for her or for you? I do it to impress my wife, but I also do it for my own satisfaction. I love the feel of a heavier, thicker penis and I love it. What guy doesn’t? If you keep it up, she will most likely come to love her “new” toy. Good luck.

If “silly” is her only complaint, then it’s no big issue. Grin widely and admit “Yup, I’m silly. What about those pushup bras of yours?”

Tell her that it’s not just for size but it helps with circulation and keeps your penis naturally healthy without any nasty supplements.

Yoga for the penis.

Penis Pilate’s? Sounds like a good craze lol

Sorry. I can’t help. No wifey in my house.

Good luck though convincing her: PE is great!

Man my girlfriend would kill me if she knew I was doing this (very small girl), and that is why I won’t tell her. Not that I am huge by any standards, but plenty big. I am doing it all for myself, as it seems you are.

My wife said the same thing when I began. I was at about 7.5 x 5 and she didn’t think I needed to be any bigger, she reported to me that size doesn’t matter unless it was way too small. I have been at PE for almost a year and a half and on a good day I am at 8 x 5.5 and the other day as we were gettin’ it on she screamed out in pleasure….you feel so fucking good, your so thick and deep!! She had never said that before. Well needless to say I think she enjoys the little extra I’m packin and my erectile quality is much better as well as my overall self esteem.
I have not discussed PE with her since that first time and I don’t plan on it either. I just do my sessions and hope for continued gains.

Good luck on your endeavors!

I’m two weeks into the newbie routine and my wife knows I’m doing it. She says she’s very happy with my size (7BPEL x5.5) and doesn’t want more length. She loves to grind her clitoris on my pelvis when I’m right in and thinks extra length would affect this. However she’s had a few children so is prepared to accept more girth.

I think that she sees this as a “phase” that I’m going through and doesn’t think my PE will actually come to anything. She’s not scathing or critical, just indifferent. Hopefully she’ll feel the benefits soon enough. I think she knows I have some low self esteem issues and PE is (one of) my way of addressing them.

I look forward to the day my wife tells me to post on her behalf, thanking the existence of this site for her husbands monster cock!

Lol.

Ginger7 wrote:

“I look forward to the day my wife tells me to post on her behalf, thanking the existence of this site for her husbands monster cock!”

Wow.. Just wow.

I have to admit that sometimes I find reading this forum more entertaining than watching “stand up” comedy on HBO. There is nothing funnier than listening to men getting excited about their growing dicks.. They get so childish.

Ginger7, good luck in your quest for a monster cock.. But when it happens I am convinced that your wife will call Vatican first to thank the Pope for it. She will not bother with Thunder’s Place.

If “silly” is her only complaint, then it’s no big issue. Grin widely and admit “Yup, I’m silly. What about those pushup bras of yours?”

1.Don’t do this! Attacking her insecurities is the dumbest thing one can make in a relationship.

2. Tell her it’s a man’s fantasy to have a big cock. Nothing really important, you just wanna do it cause it’s interesting. She should support you. Size matters mostly to us that’s why women may find it silly. Another reason she said that is because you are pretty big. I would never have found this website if I started with your size. Remember, you are getting because you want to, not because you need to…big guy :) )

Tell her you’re doing it to become smarter. We do think with that head after all :p

Here’s the thing.. As your wife, she likes to make you feel good about yourself. Even if it’s not a conscious effort, she will err on the side of making you feel confident.

My wife has always said the same thing about how size doesn’t matter unless it’s really really small. But in certain conversations I’ve had with her, I was able to basically ‘get it out of her’ that a bigger EG would be good. She still hasn’t said it explicitly, but it was obvious that that is how she feels. I tell you this because I want you to just take her at her word that you’re big enough, but continue PE for your own reasons.. Because it doesn’t exactly feel good to find out for sure that she’d like more. In other words.. PE = good, trying to get her true opinion of size = likely bad.

Just saying.

And I’m 7 x 5 and a newbie as well. Good luck with your endeavor.

Do it for your cat man. Hehehehe!