Need Your Advice, People

Ok , here is the story: I’m 23, tall, skinny, attractive guy (as many girls say), also I’m still a VIRGIN!

Right now I’m dating a girl, I like her a lot! The problem is that I’m not sure in my penis size (the thought that her previous boyfriends might have had much bigger penises than me and that after them she might not like me IS KILLING ME!).

Because of that I have developed some kind of mind barrier, let’s say when I’m making out with her, I can barely get an erection (normally my dick goes up so easy, but when I’m with her, realizing that we might have sex any moment, and I won’t be good enough completely disables my erection :( (because of that I had to back down from sex with her, telling her crap like I’m tired after work and didn’t get enough sleep!)

So I need your advice people, please! Tell me what should I do, maybe take some long lasting male performance pills when I go out with her, or something, I don’t know what to do! I will try to enlarge my penis through that site, but won’t have enough time to see the results before my first time with her, therefore I need something to get my penis up, and do the best I can with what I got!

You’ll find many similar stories if you read through the archives here. Many men experience anxiety over this issue. This anxiety, of course, compounds itself when you realize it’s interfering with your erection.

About the penis pills, some guys do find that a Viagra or Cialis before the first sexual encounter with a woman can help take the pressure off. And after you’ve gotten it up once with a new woman, it’s unlikely you’ll have the anxiety problem again in the future. So I think that option’s worth considering, even if it doesn’t get to the root of the anxiety issues.

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It takes a long time to build up gains ,you aren’t going to do it overnight or anything; or else whoever invented that would be a trillionare. Like the guy said, pills that get more blood down there will help. Medication probably isn’t necessary, try some GNC Men’s Health pills at GNC .. It has all the same stuff as places that sell ripoff pills of the SAME THING, for $80, $90. Take a shot of Jack and relax or something.

Yeah, the booze idea is good too, as long as alcohol doesn’t tend to inhibit your erections. I find that a couple drinks makes my first hookup with a new girl much easier.

Tell her if you dare, make contact so you don´t have any secrets. This makes some sort of accept of your problem and when you feel accepted you´ll fell more relaxed and your dick stand tall.Go for it

I say tell her about your anxiety. The more you make lame excuses not to have sex, the more she will think you don’t really like or want her.

If she really likes you she will deal with it gracefully and probably will not care anyway.

If you get the subject out in the open and off your mind, you will probably be able to function normally also.

Agree!

When many girls say you are attractive, they aren’t lying. Get confidence out of that! if you really want to skyrocket your confidence read the book "unstoppable confidence" by Kent Sayre which you can find here: http://www.unst … -confidence.com .

I don’t know your penis size but don’t make an issue out of it, seriously. Be proud of who you are and your dick is part of who you are. When you think negative about it, it will be an big burden which can poison your life in many ways.

If you can’t get an erection when you are with her ask if she can help you. Put her on her knees and let her suck your dick. You will get an erection this way.

Why not let her decide whether or not you are Big enough? When i had a 6 inch dick, I thought I was small. Now that I’m much bigger, I still feel the same. Lets admit that “Big” is never enough. So get on out there and dont bother about your size, if you like the gal. BTW, you havent really mentioned how big you are.

Try Yoga or any form of Meditation to calm your mind. Develop a positive mindset about yourself. Close your eyes and picture yourself having good sex with your gal.(it helps if you do it everyday. They are called visual seedings). Dont bother about not getting erections. Just go with the flow and feel your body react to physical intimacy.

Also, Do fun stuff with your gal. Play games, hangout and do things together. Dont keep it mushy mushy all the time. Doing fun stuff together will help her understand you and your problems better.

Good luck

After a few dumb excuses she is going to catch on that something is wrong anyways. Then her mind will start coming up with all sorrts of worse things like, maybe he’s gay, maybe has a mean herpes outbreak or she might catch on that your scared. You could tell her and she may be cool and maybe even be turned on by the fact that she gets too school you, or she might not like it. I realy don’t think viagra or something just once or twice to get you over the first time anxiety is such a bad idea. Get your confidence going and you should be getting it up normaly on your own.

Boy. You are an attractive young man. I am sure that she will be happy having sex with you. How is she going to interpret your permanent excuses? If the problem extends it is preferable speak with her about your anxiety.

The viagra can help you in the first loving appointment ….I am sure you will never need any pill again.( first loving appointment…I am very old fashion!!)

I wouldn’t talk about your penis anxiety but instead take a leap of faith, and go for it. If she really likes you then your penis size is a non-issue, well, not unless we are talking ’ micro penis’ here. Are we?

Anyways, good luck! :)

If your an attractive guy chances are shes not going to care about you penis size unless you are micro. How big are you? 5, 6 inches?

Take the long view. This situation like your virginity will pass.

You are going to spend your life fucking women for the pleasure that it gives to you, their pleasure will be a side consideration.

If you have a particularly small dick you may encounter women who are not satisfied and move on. If this girl is like that you need to find out quickly so that you too can move on and fuck someone else.

Clearly from this perspective your current fears are groundless, so take the plunge, have fun!

Kill her.