New guy here

Hey everyone, been lurking for a week now. Started the newbie routine a week ago. Starting erect length is just shy of 6 inches. Girth is 4 1/2 inches. I’m starting PE because I’m unhappy of course. Just recently got separated from my wife in November. We have been married for about three years. I’ve been trying to fix things between us but she now has a new boyfriend. The question came around in an argument and I found out he is bigger than me. She has chosen to stay with him and we are continuing our separation. Needless to say I’m upset. I feel like I will never be able to satisfy her again. We both feel like we will be together again in the future but now is not our time. I want to be able to be all she needs if that time comes. Just a little about my situation and I will post up progess in my PE if there is any.

Hi Joshyaya.

I think you should do PE for yourself, not to be bigger than your ex girlfriend’ new boyfriend. Wish you luck on gains.

I agree with you. I’m done focusing on that but it just gets to me. Regardless I’ve always been. Bit disappointed with my size and then I found this place. I’m excited of the possibilities and will stick with this. Thanks!

Totally let go of it; that just hurts you and holds you back.

Like mariners says, build a bigger dick for yourself.

So what are your current stats and have you started a newbie routine yet?

I’ll third the do it for yourself advice. Certainly don’t do it for a cheating wife. She doesn’t deserve it. I’d move on.

@BigTimber - I don’t get the impression that she cheated….she’s just moved on since their separation.

@ Joshyaya - In an argument with the ex, she’s always gonna spit out that the new guy is bigger spiel. Take a look on the recent ‘Average Size’ thread and you’ll see that you’re quite normal.

I can tell that it’s still quite raw at the moment and you see yourselves back together soon, but try not to get too hung up on getting back together as it’ll drive you insane!

Try to focus on your own future and, as other have said, PE for yourself.

Wow…just realised that was my first post in 11 years! Consider yourself privileged Josh…..Lol :)

Yeah why didn’t you post for all that time? Shame on you!

I say go ahead and PE for yourself like everyone has said, and don’t be afraid to go out and have fun with some girls. I’m young and enjoy it alot. When I say fun I dont mean you have to have sex (its more fun if you do). If you plan to get back with your ex and are trying to keep that option open that’s fine. Go flirt with women, dance, and just have a good time. Get numbers, text, set up dates, whatever. It helps with confidence after break ups. Confidence is what id call the number one trait that women fall for. You never know, you may find a woman that makes you forget about your ex.

Thank you for the advice and encouragement everyone. It really does mean a lot. And right now I’m just shy of 6 inches length and about 4 1/2 girth. My goals are 7 in length and 5-5 1/2 girth. I started the newbie routine about a week ago. And I do feel privileged to be your first post in 11 years slaminthelamb haha. Again, Much appreciated everyone.

Settle in and take your time. You have obtainable goals. Exhaust the newbie routine and gains that will come from it before moving on.

Let go of the notion of her new guy being bigger. I wouldn’t expect her to say otherwise. One thing for sure is you will never know, so do your best to let it go. I too heard the same thing and let it set me back far too long.

@Slamin Good point. I guess I jumped to a conclusion when I saw wife and new boyfriend in the same post.

@Josh Didn’t mean in insinuate anything about your Ex that wasn’t so.

Nice to see you posting again. Keep it up :)

Perhaps it is worth considering moving on from this relationship entirely?

No worries man. I actually asked for the sepration due some things that happened and I tried to reconcile and fix the problem a bit too late I guess due to her finding someone else.