New guy- need help and advice

Hello , I’m The new guy :)
I have been reading on this subject for a few weeks and came across your site and forum and first of all I have to say what a great little community you guys have over here , it’s really heart warming and I can really since the brotherhood between the members and the huge amount of support and knowledge you offer . So I do want to say , thank you for being here and for sharing .
A little more about me , I am 23 years old and I am well built , 1.80 cm with a fairly muscular body and I am happy with that. I do realize that my penis size is average, maybe even low average at a BPEL of 5 inches and an EMG of 4.7 inches .
I will also say ( and this may be a breather for some of you ) I have never had a woman comment on the size of my penis in a negative way, and they were all satisfied with my performance , maybe that’s because I was very eager and put a lot of effort into pleasuring them or maybe because there a lot of guys out there that are just like me . Whatever the reason is it does not really matter because the bottom line is that I’ve had really great sexual relationships with all of my partners.
That is the the main idea I want to emphasize which is that I am not interested in PE for the sex or for the women , I am interested in PE for myself , so I have the feeling that my penis will put a smile on any woman that may see it before actually “trying me out”. So , it’s really all about my ego :)
You see I am kind of a big guy and I would like my junk to be proportionate with my body size and build.
With everything said I also have no illusions about how PE works , I do not think that I will be able to reach like 8X6 or something that big , but I will be really happy with everything .

What I am hoping to achieve is something like BPEL 6-6.5 inches and a EMG of 5.2-5.5 inches and my question is as follows : how realistic am I being , and in your own experience how much could it take ( with a religiously performed routine) to gain 1-1.25 inches in length and about .5-.8 inches in girth.
I would love your feedback and any advice you can give me - sorry for maybe writing for too long but I’m sure your gonna let this first one slide :D

Welcome to thunders place doberman, your motives for PE’ing are very common, we all want a bigger penis mainly to feel good about ourselves so dont feel like its a bad thing :)
As for your questions your goals are very realistic, however no one can tell you how long its going to take. Some guys gain an inch in 3 months while others in 2-3 years or even cant gain at all.
The main thing you should do at first is read here in all of the forums (including the injuries forum) just to get an idea about what it takes and what it involves.
If you do decide to take on this journey, you should definitely read about the newbie routine and some other important topics like watching your PI’s, which you can find right here in the newbies guide.

Anyway i wish you all the best, and if you ever have a question you can always ask, like as you said this is a community.

Thank you for your reply :)

Of course I have read almost everything I could find in this forum and I am very excited - the whole idea of natural PE is very logical and reasonable, unlike pills and chemicals that promise you enormous gains in a very short period which is just evil in my opinion.

I am very glad that you find my goals realistic, it gives me a moral boost to know that what I want to do is doable thus making it seem a little bit easier. Of course if I could I would love to gain even more but just hitting my goal will be a very welcome edition.

I’ve decided to use the rookie routine given in the forum- 5 minutes of stretching followed by a gradually increasing jelqing time that would after a couple of months reach 30 minutes total ( plus of course the warm ups and kegal exercises ) .

My question would be is there something that you think I can safely add to the rookie routine that could help me see a little bit more rookie gains because I’m sure that seeing measurable gains as a rookie would really strengthen my dedication for PE in the long run .

I have another question :)

Due to a “tight cut” that was performed on my member ( if I could speak at the time I would have never let a dude with a hot blade come anywhere near my penis) I have a noticeable turkey neck.
I think it looks bad and sometimes it gives me a hard time with condoms so I would also like to do something about that and I’ve seen some stretching exercises that I could perform to help get rid of this problem which has me stretching the skin in the other direction than manual stretching so I am a little concerned about these stretches in some way canceling out the manual stretching I will be doing in my routine, and what concerns me more is having the jelqing actually increase the size of the turkey neck - what are your thoughts about that ?

Awesome!
Yes i do have something you can add to your routine, which is patience :)
And on a more serious note, you should really take the time doing the newbie routine to really learn about yourself, and about how your penis reacts and feels.
You’ll be surprised to find out things you have never seen of felt, like veins and nerves for example.
Another thing is, learn how to measure yourself in the bone pressed position, since it is the most accurate way of really seeing changes (which is what we’re all about here). You can also take pictures and log things you feel and find out, for future reference, but those are really up to you.

Regarding your turkey neck problem, unfortunately i cant help you since i don’t have that problem, but I’m sure people will chime in to give you an advice. :)

Thank you man really for your advice I appreciate it a lot .

Actually after a week I already see a vein on the shaft and I have to say it’s really cool since I’ve had a smooth shaft so far and that vein just makes my dick look tougher :D

I will do as you said and I’m sure it’s going to help .

So again thank you for the support and I hope than in 3 months I can come back and report on some progress .. :)

And for the other guys who read this if you could help in some way please reply and share your experience and wisdom with me regarding my routine or the other problem I’m having and thank you all in advance

Welcome to the club Dobermanbulldog! I think your goals are reasonable and your motives are very understandable, and MisterN has given you some very sage advice. The guys who seem to have the most struggle are those who seem to think that PE os some sort of magic bullet that will make them smarter, happier, more successful etc. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders! Congrats.

Stick with the newbie routine for a few months. For most of us, it takes that long to dial in on what seems to be working and what doesn’t. And a lot of guys have very substantial results for a long time with the newbie routine. Stick with what works.

My personal thinking is that some guys seem to be plagued with turkey neck more than others. I’m not sure I fully understand your remarks about stretching (of any kind) reducing turkey neck. Some guys use a ball-stretcher strap (or something equivalent) to hold the skin in place while they PE. Might be worth a try.

Good luck and stay in touch!

Thank you clgp7 I appreciate your advice and I will stick with the rookie routine for as long as I see growth.

About the turkey neck - it’s really annoying and I could really use any piece of advice that could help with that problem because its not only unpleasant to look at , it really does make keeping a condom on hard and distracting.