Hi there and welcome.
First off, your size is pretty common and not small, actually average. Second, we women suck at telling how big something is; so the “9” inches was probably more around 7 to 7.5. Third, check out the videos that we have, which will show you how to do many of the exercises . As far as pictures go, check out member pics, you will probably find a gold mine of information there.
Consistency is a big key to growth, dedication is another. This isn’t something that will happen over night, please don’t try to rush things, we don’t want you getting injured. There are many different viewpoints on rest days, etc. Start with the newbie routine, and remember, its a guideline, not carved in stone. Listen to what your penis tells you. Check out the favorites button in my signature line with regards to Physiological Indicators, its important (in my opinion) to keep an eye on those, be they positive, or negative, as they can impact growth.
Once again, welcome to the forum, may your stay be long and productive. As a piece of friendly type advice, limit to totally avoid chat speak, we have a few folks that get real pissy about it. You aren’t in any kind of trouble for it, just letting you know.
