Opinions on size as opposed to gf

I just wanted to get some thoughts on my size in to relation to what my girlfriend thinks! My currrent size is about 7” EL and about 5.5” EG wich I don’t think is very big.. Now she has been with six other guys and is telling me that I am the biggest that she has had! I kinda don’t believe her thinking that I’m not that big but she also is a very truthful girl about that stuff! It doesnt really matter but was just wondering if you guys thought what she is saying could likely be true? Also I know a couple of the guys she was with and they are bigger than I am, like taller and weigh more so that gives me the perception that they would be bigger is there any truth to this also? Thanks

Body size and mass has nothing to do with penis size. I am 180cm tall and 74kg and I’m not that big. 7” EL and 5.5” EG is big. Way above average. You sure beat me- 6.5” EL 5-5.2” EG.

7x5.5” is big, it is definitely possible that you are her biggest. Why do you worry about it? I would just respond with an evil grin :D .

Damn, with my stats being close to yours race17k, I must be pretty damn big too !! ;) I’m 18 years old at the moment so with a few more years of PE’ing, here I come a healthy and active sexlife !! :D

Body size/height/etc. has little correlation to dick size. Your dick is large. She is very likely telling the truth. Hardly anyone thinks their dick is big enough.

You don’t say if your 7” EL is BP or NBP. If it is NBP you are close to what many here are aiming for. If it is BP, as long as you are not a ‘pork-beast’ it is still long. 5.5” girth is in my opinion the ideal; 6” seems to be considered ideal by many here - depends whether you get your kicks from just vaginal sex or whether you like oral and anal as well.

Is that 7” BPEL, or indeed 7” EL, and if so what is your BPEL?

That is definitely on the big side in both dimensions, and your partners’ experience reflects the reality of just how big you are. You can search for various threads discussing topics like “true average”.

That’s also a size that is close to as big as the large majority of women can easily accomodate, without at least some occasional discomfort. You can search for various threads discussing topics like “ideal size”, and search carefully for some of the most critical discussion.

At the same girth as you, and a little bit shorter, I find that I sometimes make partners sore fairly quickly due to my thickness, leading to shorter sex sessions and longer intervals between sessions. I would like to be closer to your length, but since I already have some experience hitting partners’ cervixes - uncomfortably - I wouldn’t want to be much longer than that.

I’ve recently realized that visually I’d love to have a fat 8 x 6 flacid hang, but based on lots of reading including experiences from bigger guys, for myself I would make a practical judgement call that anything bigger than 7.5” BPEL x 5.75” EG would run more of a risk for being a problem with partners than I would be comfortable with.

Good Luck,

FF

My girl thinks my size is great, but I don’t. So I ‘m thinking of leaving her to find a women with better taste in penises.

(kidding)

My length is 7” nbp and it seems to me if I were any thicker she might not like giving oral as much and I can’t have that =) It’s just really hard to tell about your size if all you have ever seen is pornos with guys with big cocks and don’t know about true size.

With 7 nbp chances are you are her biggest.

If there was one among them with a bigger unit and she tells you that you are the biggest, you are even luckier; in that case your girl is smart and sensitive. Either way - good girl.

It’s impossible to be sure about your girlfriend’s past experiences, and it’s really not worth worrying about. Some women lie to make their boyfriends feel better, some lie to make their boyfriends feel worse, and many tell the truth. All you need to know is that you have a big dick and that if you’re interested in making it bigger, you can find the resources to do so on this forum.

Smart point :thumbs:

I’m about the same size (maybe a little bigger), and my girlfriend told me I was her biggest, reluctantly.. Yeah she doesn’t like to give away free ego boosts :) But either way, like these guys said.. It’s pretty well above average, and you don’t really *need* to be any bigger than that (otherwise you might cause more problems than pleasure).. I’m just lucky I found a girl that can accommodate me (because a lot just can’t take it).

Pleasure versus size is most likely a bell curve. Real small, the pleasure is lower. Real large, the pleasure is lower. Somewhere in the middle, there’s a maxima, with pleasure gradually dropping off on either side.

Or, maybe there are two maxima: one for the G-spot and one for the CDS. The maxima for different women are probably different.

In other words, being a good fit for a women is not about being her biggest. It’s about lining up with her maxima (or, at least one of them).

Modesto - being a little off her maxima can easily be compensated for; by loving care, the kind of sex play she likes, unexpected moves, never get boring. Generosity.

Doing, or not doing things just for her. Like stop drinking alcohol.

You name it.

Have you personally had trouble with being too big for some women? If so, please tell us about your experiences. I wouldn’t expect it to be common at your size, but it’s certainly possible to have problems with a certain portion of the smallest women.

Thanks,

FF