Originally Posted by sanketp
I am in my late 19’s. I met a girl few days ago. Chilled with her sometimes. I think I am going get laid soon. But I am insecure about my dick size. She dated a black guy before. So this is putting me into illusion that what if she thinks I am small and can’t suffice. I know I can use tongue and fingers but that is going to suffice her but what about me. So is there any way I can add a few inches like jelquing or wait till 21 till I finish puberty or it continues to grow till 25? When did you guys stop growing? My question is not based on this specific scenario but for mere future.
Your comment actually makes me feel more unfortunate pressure for the black man than you, not an easy stereotype to have to live up to, which most of the time, will not be lived up to.
Relative to fulfilling a woman, you are thinking way too much about your cock. A good hook up requires you to think beyond just your cock. Remember, she is also human and all those things you worry about, she has her own worries.
So you are both human, find out what she likes, show her you are listening, attend to her needs and be confident in fulfilling your own.
Some of us are fat, some are frail, some are shorter, some are taller, some women have big breast, some have smaller, get it…
The limiting factor is when any one of us gets hung up on these physicalities, which is a lower discourse in my opinion.
If you are into this girl, have fun and be your self and go in for the kill. If she likes you, she will like you even more for not holding back and believing in yourself.
Fact is, even if she could care less about cock size, she still might not be into you. Such is life, next… so go for it.