Perception of length

I have been doing manual PE since February of this year, and so far have seen really good gains. My initial measurements were off, but I think I’m safe saying I am over 3/4” longer in erect length, but not much if anything in girth.

Yesterday my boyfriend brought up PE. He actually called it “that heating pad thing you do.” That made me laugh. In the conversation, I asked him what he thought it had done for me. He didn’t want to say nothing, so he said maybe I get a little better engorged. He is completely unaware of any change in size at all, which surprises me. Physically, his reactions tell me sex feels a more intense, but mentally, he hasn’t noticed that its related to size, maybe he’s chalking better sex up to some other factors.

I’ve always figured girth makes a bigger difference than girth, now I’m sure it does. I don’t know if I want to change my routine yet, as long as I’m gaining. I would like to see more girth though. Probably I’ll keep with what’s working, and start pumping on off days. Thinking about clamping, not decided one way or the other though.

Girth makes a bigger difference than girth?

Uh. Girth makes a bigger difference. (Than length.)

If you are gaining don’t change ANYTHING. Trust me. Once you have gone 2-3 months without any gains then start worrying about changing your routine. Milk your length for as much as you can get or you are going to wish you had stuck with it later. The gains will stop eventually.

That makes me laugh as well.

It surprises me as well. He is saying that he notices better engorgement and then claims to be unaware of any change in size.

It seems a little contradictory, no?

If he has noticed better engorgement he is acknowledging a change in size is he not?

Or is this hair being split fine?

On the other hand you could just be having better sex.

In that case the size aspect could be something that turns YOU on more, or differently, and the result is you have better sex with him.

I feel sure, from the structure of the sentence, that this was supposed to be contrast, however you said ‘girth’ both times and I’m not sure which one was the mistake.

I need clarity here.

Ah, I see caboose2409 had the same question.

Help us out, before there’s widespread panic.

If it ain’t broke… don’t fix it. If you’re gaining with what you’re doing, stay consistent. The clamps will be there for you, should you stop gaining. No rush. PE is a marathon, as some of us say around here, not a sprint.

Do you feel your practices are giving you better quality erections?

I think the better sex may be coming as a result of your efforts, and size is a factor, but it’s one factor - and it may be affecting you more than him; most sex takes place between the ears. PE could be helping in the sex department in a variety of ways, you know?

But the main thing is: better sex is never unwelcome, no matter what the reason.

So whatever is happening, it’s working.
Well done. :thumbs:

He is obviously saying, girth makes more difference in length since he hasn’t gained any. He think if he does his boyfriend will notice more so. If you want girth and are happy with your length then go for it!

Thanks Audacia, I figured as much, but I was also having a little fun. :leftie:

When I gained my first .25” in girth the woman I was sleeping with at the time said something like, “We have to careful, you can’t get any bigger.”

The hell of it was, she was kidding. She certainly didn’t know about PE and had no idea that I actually had gotten bigger.

Small gains in girth make a big difference. It radically affects overall volume and, as the spaces that people are plugging themselves into tend to be quite narrow, even a ‘small’ gain is a lot.

Agree, don’t change anything. Congrats on gains. Maybe raise up jelqs a bit if you haven’t gained girth at all.

Thanks for the responses. I’m not thinking any manor change in my routine is due. If I add anything new, it will be a gradual thing over time. It hadn’t occurred to me the better sex could be a change in my mentality, it definitely could be.

I am measuring my penis as consistently as possible…..I thought it was 4 and 1/2 inches, but after a a bunch of erect measurements its is actually over 5 inches with a good erection about 5 and 1/4 inches almost 1/2. I guess its very important to get your correct measurement so you don’t get false gains. This makes me get nervous and skeptical about if people even really gain at all or just measure badly with different erection qualities

When it comes to choosing between more girth and more girth, I choose more girth. :)

Dang! I keep forgetting you’re gay northmiamitop. I was really confused at first when you mentioned a boyfriend lol.

It’s ok. I’m not gay, but my boy friend sure is. No homo.

Not sure how to take that reply, but just in case I’m missing sarcasm, no offense was meant.

:funpost: