PLease Help Crazy depressed over size

Correct, at 5-1/2” girth you are into XL or XXL condoms.
Nowhere near small.

Some women will be hell bent to destroy you however they can. Some will equally be equally enthusiastic to help you. Most are in between. It sounds like you may have got a hold of my ex-wife *laughing*. She was more on the destroyer end of the spectrum. Seriously though, I think PE is a great thing and it works. Do it for the right reasons and relax man. Your fine, your choice is Women might be questionable.

Surgery has so many possible horrific outcomes…it’s dangerous man.

You will never be happy if you aren’t happy now. If you can’t accept yourself now you never will simply because you gain an inch downstairs. Trust me, your mindset is the problem, not you’re dick. I say that in the gentlest tone. I’m not downing on you. I fight the same demons. If you don’t tackle the mindset you’ll be unhappy plain and simple.

Accept yourself man. Be good to yourself. How can you treat others right if you don’t even treat yourself right. There’s no light switch to flip to stop these insecurities. It does take work. Just like lifting weights. You practice refuting those thoughts as they pop up. Just like training for a marathon, you get better each day.

Don’t go a step further until you’ve really thought about where all this is coming from. I know this is a penis enlargement forum, but dude, I hope you hear the vets here telling you that happiness is not found in a big dick. Don’t go looking for it there.

P.s. I’ll say it again, don’t project your insecurities onto your gf or her words. It’s like sand in the shoes. Be open with her but give her room to be herself.

Wait I must have misread your post, you have 5.5 in girth and you’re complaining. Base girth or not that is big. Who said base girth is not important the opening of the vagina is one of the most sensitive with the gspot just 2 inches deep. Just be content and appreciate what you got. Your size is my goal. So be greatful do the newbie routine and you’ll get bigger. But be careful, she said you’re ideal for her, she most likely means it you may be having sex with her if you get bigger. Women are more likely to leave a guy that’s too big than a guy thats too small. Nobody likes too much pain. Get your head out of your dick and focus on pleasing your girl. She already ranks you higher than her ex because you are ideal for her.

This reminds me of when guys return from fishing trips, and the one that “got away”
was twice the size of everything else..

If a woman is going to talk about her ex(s), they almost certainly would *never* admit
to having guys “micro” or average, it keeps you on the “back foot/guessing” and
implies they’ve had, ( and can always pull ), better.

What to do, ignore it, be the best YOU can be for yourself first. There’s nothing more
attractive to a woman than confidence, and there’s nothing more unattractive than
self doubt.

was it really necessary to post like a histrionic little girl, no, but you did it anyways. you have what many people are putting in hours of work to get

Regardless of what you think of his post, calling the OP a ‘histrionic little girl’ isn’t necessary or tolerated here. Save the vitriol for Reddit and 4chan. We don’t do that here.

The real slim shady said "if you say mean things, your weenie will shrink".

I’m slim shady yes I’m the real shady, all you other slim shady’s are just imatating

he said he needed surgery to be a man, I’ll just call him what he is. I’m not genderphobic, you can identify however you want be it attack helicopter or 12 year old girl

Typical women manipulation to make you feel less adequate and hold on to her more like you’re “lucky” to have you. Especially alpha women they’ll say it and end up trying to be head of the household. Grab your balls and show her who’s the damn boss regardless of your size. You’re the damn man not her ALPHA UP or you’ll wind up with a marriage where your women runs your money and life.

Let’s try this again, maybe I was unclear in some way.

It doesn’t matter what you think he is. It does not matter why you think the OP is whatever you called him. Period. The comments are inappropriate and not appreciated here. The remarks may be welcome or clever elsewhere. Save them for one of those places. It is not tolerated here and I’m not going to explain that again. Ad hominem attacks are against the Forum Guidelines , consider yourself warned.

I’d kill for 5.5 mid girth. Been stuck at 5.3-5.4 for months!!! But my new chick says her ex was 9x6 and tore her. Mines perfect she says and has multiples every time. Says I’m the best she ever had! Ill take it!

Well bro I’d kill for what you have in both length and girth. I’m kind of happening the same as you except that I’m not 38, I’m just 20. My self-esteem is pretty low right now but I’m trying to work on it.

Many people may say the same about me but I think you’re exaggerating, you’re from my point of view in a very good place when it comes to penis size, I’d really wish I had your penis size.

But even though I understand your feeling of inadequacy - if it’s that you have it.

If your GF is bragging about how big her ex-BF is, it’s time for you to find another GF. Seriously, leave her. Leave her now. Save yourself and leave.

The measure of a man is not in his pants, it’s in his heart.

It’s not your fault you were born the size you are. If you want more than what you have for your own reasons (not to please another or try to catch up to some elusive ex-bf) then put in the work to make it so. Self hate, whether based on body type or other reasons, is a downward spiral that you don’t want to ride. When you love yourself for who you are and what you have, the right girls will come around and seek you out.