Originally Posted by Monster620
Hello everyone, I am brand new to this stuff and this site. I am at an all time low with my self-esteem at 38 years old. I’ve always been a bit self-conscious about it since my ex wife told me about a “huge” ex bf but of course I knew these guys were out there. That was 20 years ago. Since then, I’ve been divorced 8 years now and have been dating. Women have always told me I satisfied them and I’ve never had anyone say I was small and I’ve found a way to be ok with my size for the most part until now. Up till now I assumed that these “big” guys were very far and few in between and so I didn’t think girls came across them often if ever. When I look at studies, I’m supposed to be in like a higher percentage so I’ve operated under the assumption that I didn’t look like a women naked in front of people I date. Now my new girl let it slip that here ex was “too big” for her and that I am the perfect size. She meant this as a compliment but of course I want to fucking die now and can’t seem to recover from it. I can’t even have sex now as I’m so paranoid she’s looking at me like I’m a boy compared to here previous bfs. My questions are: what can I do to get bigger? Does this stuff on here actually work? If at 6.75x5.5 I’m supposed to be bigger than most people than why does every woman have bigger guys in their past? Also this site makes me feel like shit too haha as I started looking around on here two days ago and like most people’s starting measurements are like 7.5 inches. Since when does every guy have a huge dick and why do studies claim this 5.2 stuff? Please help thanks.
There is always someone bigger. Just make sure you take her to places sexually that she has never been. Don’t hold back and don’t waste energy when hooking up thinking about dick size, be emotionally efficient.
Make an impact through approaching every sexual encounter with her as if you are exploring the infinite universe, don’t hold anything back. Obviously this requires modifying your action based on response, listening.
In the future you two are still together or you will have moved on from one another. Regardless, if you went for it she will never be able to question your spirit in bed! If you each move on, she might even accidentally slip to her new boy friend, who is slightly larger ;-) “my last boy friend was an animal in bed, he didn’t ask permission for anything, he just went for it.”
By the way, at 5.5”, you are thick. I am almost 0.75” thinner than you, never thought twice about the other guys cock that my hook ups may have experienced.
So there are definitely size queens out there and even some size queens that are truly sexual. However; truly sexual people are less hung up on the physicality and they are more focused on finding partners that can let go and explore new horizons, someone they can be themselves with.
Long story short, your cock is perfect and you are wasting time thinking about it when engaging emotionally and physically with women. Do PE for the purpose of fetish, not because you think it will actually make you a better partner.
Much love and best wishes.
