PLease Help Crazy depressed over size
Hello everyone, I am brand new to this stuff and this site. I am at an all time low with my self-esteem at 38 years old. I’ve always been a bit self-conscious about it since my ex wife told me about a “huge” ex bf but of course I knew these guys were out there. That was 20 years ago. Since then, I’ve been divorced 8 years now and have been dating. Women have always told me I satisfied them and I’ve never had anyone say I was small and I’ve found a way to be ok with my size for the most part until now. Up till now I assumed that these “big” guys were very far and few in between and so I didn’t think girls came across them often if ever. When I look at studies, I’m supposed to be in like a higher percentage so I’ve operated under the assumption that I didn’t look like a women naked in front of people I date. Now my new girl let it slip that here ex was “too big” for her and that I am the perfect size. She meant this as a compliment but of course I want to fucking die now and can’t seem to recover from it. I can’t even have sex now as I’m so paranoid she’s looking at me like I’m a boy compared to here previous bfs. My questions are: what can I do to get bigger? Does this stuff on here actually work? If at 6.75x5.5 I’m supposed to be bigger than most people than why does every woman have bigger guys in their past? Also this site makes me feel like shit too haha as I started looking around on here two days ago and like most people’s starting measurements are like 7.5 inches. Since when does every guy have a huge dick and why do studies claim this 5.2 stuff? Please help thanks.