Privacy Problem, Help.

I’m having a kind of a privacy problem when I’m moving in with my girlfriend in a couple of months. How do you other guys, do this? Do you shower for an hour every day, or just tell your girl/wife what your (new) hobby is and do it in the bedroom in front of her. Besides that, it’s nice to have some stimulating material when I’m doing PE. Don’t know what to do, please some good advice.

Go to sleep later than her and PE, or get up early and do it. Spread it up over the day. I’ll let the other members chime in here.

I just don’t know how people can let their SO watch them PE.

I just lock myself in my room for a while and if anyone asks, I’m taking a very long crap. I use headphones for the porn. ;)

Spread it over the day or getting up early maybe is a good thing, but I can’t lock my girlfriend out of her own bedroom.

I would tell her, but thats just me. And if you are going to tell her, then make sure you make her a part of it, rather than make it all about your self. This way she thinks its you improving upon your self with the hopes of making your relationship and sex life better. If you try to hide it and you are caught she will think your insecure, which is a major turn off. It all just depends on how close you two are, and how you approach her with it. Another angle is to tell her its all about the penile health for you, assuring her your content with your size and proud of it. And that the JELQing in the shower is to maintain those spectacular erections through out your old age with out the need of Viagra. The additional size is just a additional bonus. I dont know, its up to you really. But I think the only real way to live with some one and PE is to tell them, that way you can do it at will and be consistent with our work outs.

I agree with givethemnothing. I told my partner about PEing and she had quite a few reservations. The main one being: you’re shutting me out and being selfish. She thought about it some more and asked me to buy some Geisha Balls as an incentive for her to kegel. Now she’s fine with me PEing, it’s not all about getting a bigger penis - the sexual health aspects are also very important.

That said I don’t get much time to do it at home so I sneak into one of the office toilets at work and work-out during my lunch break. Not easy, no porn, and can be somewhat stressy but it gets easier with time. Good luck in your PE journey! :D

PE at the office?!

Addict!

You bet! ;-)

I like to keep life simple so I told my wife from the start.

I have run into a problem with the kids being on summer break and me working from home. My solution was pretty simple. I purchased the cheapest book on meditation that I could find and told the kids I would be meditating every day before taking a shower.

It’s worked out very well for me and may work with your girlfriend. Good luck!

Thanks guys, that’s some good advice, my girl is really open minded, so telling her seems the best thing to do.

I’m working up the courage to tell my wife. I think if I house it in terms of Penile health, like trying to prevent ED and Prostate problems and finding a way to increase my stamina, that she’ll be OK with it. At that point, I could just tell her I need 30-40 minutes of privacy 3-4 times a week and she would be cool with that.

I tried to stretch in the john yesterday, but it just didn’t work. I’ll have to work on that.. Excuse me.

I do that to. LOL. I usually do some squeezes and some of my weird wrist stretches for about 10-15 minutes in the stall. I always choose that last stall so no one goes down there, and make suer and stop doing it when some one walks up. You dont want co workers telling people they caught you jacking off in the bathroom do you. hahaha, cause thats what they would think you were doing. :)

Yep. As the great man once put it: “oh what a wicked web we weave when first we practice to deceive”. :D