Rethinking Goals

I have my main goal as being 7.5” x 5.5”. But, after reading a few things, and thinking about my situation, I wonder if my girth goal really needs to be my focus (I need more girth, but now concerned with going too far).

I’m married, so I don’t need a monster cock. I need something that completely satisfies my wife. But at the same time, I love blow jobs and worried about going too far.

Has anyone run into issues above 5” with their wife or girlfriend having issues giving head? I’m thinking about getting to 5”, maintaining, see how blow jobs work, and then working up in small increments.

I’m thinking you are a lot smarter than many of the guys here with that approach.

Mine’s 5” girth-wise. My girlfriend is around 5’6”, maybe 7. She can deep-throat and blowjobs tend to be no issue (from what I can tell). I’ll push for girth after I hit the length I want as I feel my girth now is adequate for the points you’ve mentioned.

My wife isn’t into anal and neither am I, so I abandoned any aspirations for that when I hit 5.5” MSEG.

Oral is still fine. She complains about jaw soreness, but that’s nothing new as it takes me a long time to cum through oral.

But every woman is different. Not wanting to get too big for your wife is a good idea.

So far, I’ve grown from 5” EG to 5.6” EG. My wife can still give me head with no problem at all. In fact, she’s more enthusiastic about it now than before. (She doesn’t know about my PE, so she may not realize my cock is actually thicker than before.) She was never interested in anal, but she just recently asked for it for the first time ever. I figured my size increase had totally closed the door on any hope for anal, but I guess not!

Oh My Gosh, Please read my thread, do it as a favour to yourself. I am the one here, that post, to make your goals appropriately. My exact goal was 7.5 X 5.5, and that in my opinion
is the ideal huge size. I kept going for more. Life got bad. Long story, read my thread it is all documented. I am at about 8.25 X 6.25 and it does not look nearly as long and fat as it
it did at 7.5 X 5.5. That is a very good ratio. Ms tnt says I look huge. I am, but at my size, my cock looks short and fat. I don’t know, it may just be me. Please do yourself a favour and
read my thread. I almost lost my marriage because of the extra growth. I preach this in a lot of threads, do a search on my posts and you will see that I have been discouraging many here and
to do realistic goals, and if you are married, do it for the both of you. How do I know? I went too far.

Regards,

I’ll definitely go back and read that thread.

And I’m glad to hear that some women (wives in particular) still give head at 5.5” girth. I love my wife, but if it takes too much work, or is too uncomfortable, she’ll quit doing it. She’s already pretty vanilla when it comes to sex anyways. Oral sex isn’t real frequent (couple times a month at most), but I don’t want to cut out what I do get.

I think 7 x 5 will be an obtainable, good first goal now. When I reach that, I’ll work on cementing and maintaining and see how things are from there. If she is not complaining a lot about the size, I’ll take the next step to go a little larger. But I’d be happy with 7 x 5.