Scared of approaching women because of my small penis.

I’m afraid. My penis BPEL is 4.5 inches but when flaccid it looks so damn small. I’m afraid that when a woman will put her hands down my pants she will find out and laugh at me. Then she will gossip to everybody.

I’m a 22yr old virgin so it sucks even more.

Face your fears or face nothing at all.

It’s your choice in the end, do not let your mind trap yourself in a prison created by yourself, you are in control of you mind, free your mind, stop being a prisoner of your mind, give it freedom, face your fears, and learn from it.

That’s what you’re here for right, to get rid of that fear? Religiously devote yourself to PE and you will reach your goal of 7 BPEL. We all started out wanting a bigger dick, that’s what drove us here. Use this forum and the wisdom the good gainers. Promise yourself never to miss a day of PE for a year, and at the end of that long, hard (pun intended) year you’ll have ten times more confidence in your dick and yourself.

I agreed with Phoenix, you have to free you’re mine of the prison you have made, but I am not agreed with cooterstufer in that you’ll be ok just by PE training, the only thing that will truly help you with that problem it’s the way you see your self, you have to look in the mirror and see who you really are, not just the bad parts that you think you have, and accept you, that’s the only way that you can stop that fear.

Regarding the PE goal of you can get there in a year, so be constant in your exercises, but never let your dig be the core of your security.

Take care man

Just don’t overtrain…it’ll set you back.

Dude, I bet your a kick ass guy. So be a happy and be secure. When a woman finally put her hand down your pants. Put your “you have no idea what this dicks capable of” face on and be secure as shit and she wont care. In fact she’ll be curious. If your face goes pale as she reaches your belt, she’ll freak. If your penis finds its way to a woman, you act like its king dick.

You made your self insecure. And now convince yourself your just a normal average guy. It’s possible so start convincing.

On top of that, make PE a life style. Get started, and in a year or two you’ll have a big cock, and you’ll be typing a success thread.

Just remember, size doesn’t matter, tightness does!

Well you are here for a reason…start a consistent PE routine (that is if you haven’t done so already) and you will grow into your desired 7 BPEL. We all can only imagine where you would be if you remained consistent with PE when you joined the forum. Others have already offered advice on approaching women so there is not much else for me to say regarding that. Good luck on your continued journey. :)

Leo,

Your penis is small, that is not in question.

Much of what is said I agree with in terms of utilizing this site to grow your unit.

However, I will be honest and real in that you will face rejection and humiliation but not because your penis is small. You can have the biggest dick on the planet and if a girl is pissed enough at you for whatever reason and immature enough or if you are of bad character she will ridicule you by making fun of your penis regardless of size.

The thing you need to be aware of is if a girl is going to make fun of you and gossip about your size, it has nothing to do with your penis, but everything to do with how insecure, narrow-minded and immature that girl is.

If you know who you are and remain true to yourself and are after more than just an ego boost by bagging some chick at a bar, a woman will appreciate you more and whatever you have to offer.

Try not to let irrational fear paralyze your social development by not adhering to society’s stereotypes imposed upon you by small-minded, insecure idiots.

Self-confidence is found by realizing who you are as a person and not letting your dick define you as a man.

Good luck and have fun.

Man I’ve only got 3 inch flaccid and it’s never bothered me or any girl I’m with. They know it get’s bigger.
You could have a two inch cock and still make a women cum. In fact you could have no cock and still make a women cum. Focus on PE and in the mean time focus on other things such as confidence and other aspect of sex. Then she’ll be gossiping about how you know how to use it.

My last girl friend would only cum when she was on top or if we had dry sex because her favorite part was my pubic bone rubbing her clit. My cock was just another part of it. My favorite part was doggy though so she missed out a lot.

By the way whats your girth if you don’t mind me asking?

I would love to see you succeed brother. I cannot relate to your specific dilemma, but I know everyone has dealt with the issue of feeling inadequate in one way or another. It really blows but you can beat it. The problem becomes more acute since the penis is the male symbol for masculinity. But a small dick does not make you a small man. Be encouraged that you can do something about your unhappiness and get to work. I wish you luck growing a larger penis and the balls to get whatever you want from any woman.

Tip:
1. Smaller women will have smaller vaginas and you wont need as much dick to get her off.
2. If you have sex with another virgin or a less “experienced” girl you will probably avoid the embarrassment because she will self conscious herself.
3. You can get her off with good oral and hand stimulation, and if you can slip on a cock ring or pump beforehand.
4. Don’t wait to lose your virginity until you have a big dick, life is too short.

And remember your dick is for pleasing you! Forget what she has to say to her friends! Find a girl you really like and as long as you both have a good time who cares?

Lebon, what you need the most and immediately is to get rid of the bad image you have about yourself based on such a stupid thing as dick size! Do you think your value as a human consists of the unit you have? Do you really think that people - and women in particular - evaluate you based on your penis?

- If your answer is YES, then join the “Pathetic Lonelies - Male Section” where you can meet other guys avoiding female company for similar serious reasons: under-average height, boldness, overweight, being too skinny, wearing eye glasses and so on.
- The alternative is you still have some leftover working brain. In that case, you focus on your bright side (everybody has some positive features) and become confident. There is no physical feature (dick size, look, muscles, etc.) that could equal high confidence when it comes to socializing. Learn to relax and look for female company. You don’t have to go too far from the beginning, take some time to get used to being a normal guy!
In the meantime do PE! Not because you couldn’t go without it, just to boost your confidence.

Enough with the talking, you should be busy by now!

P.S. Some good advices given by others

My advice? Simple… Dance like no one is watching and fuck like you have a monster cock. :)

It’s a very funny fact that almost all girls don’t have the ability to guestimate the size of a cock on a visual. It’s also funny that arrogant guys tend to “look” a lot bigger than those with low self-respect.

In all honesty majority of guys are insecure about the size of their penis and, as house MD says if you fuck like you have a monster cock cause then that will get her thinking you have a monster cock. Simple as that and no matter what size your cock is most people are still insecure about it.

And good luck on getting the 7” you want. If your really that bothered about size then just focus on foreplay, because the more foreplay and teasing the better it will feel for the girl big cock or not.

CJ