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Originally Posted by skins
I have some personal experience with this. I had dated this girl for a couple of months and things were going really well, but we had not done anything really sexual except for some heavy kissing and fondling. One night we were fooling around on the couch and she asked me why I had not “tried anything yet.” I felt comfortable enough with her to tell her about my insecurity in the size department.

We had a great talk about it and afterwards my insecurity about my size was somewhat gone. We had mind blowing sex, and she said all the right things to fill me with confidence. We got married a year later.

I think all relationships are built on complete honesty and wide open communication. Hmmm…maybe I should tell her about my PE!

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Hmmm…maybe I should tell her about my PE.


Let’s not go crazy. You don’t want to lose the element of surprise. :leftie:

I think motivated has another excellent observation regarding the balancing act reqired between confidence and personal strength and being forthright and open with her. It’s true that you can have both at the same time. It’s also true that you should pick your moments to open up, and be select about how you open up. You don’t want to overwhelm someone with your insecurities. I think he’s also correct that you don’t want to set a tone regarding sexual insecurity which could then persist in your relationship with her and possibly others.

Owning that you are a virgin and so a little nervous is probably enough. Let things unfold naturally.

You’ll have to give us a progress report. :)

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Sandudan,

Keep us posted! We’re rooting for you. And definitely listen to SurfDog’s advice! It’s the best yet.

Definitely go for it !!!

I noticed that i always feel better if a girl i am with knows ahead of time that i am not big…so i generally make some sort of a joke about it…the point of it being is that she knows that i am not too big but at the same time i am not obssecing over it and still confident…works wonders ;)

Originally Posted by latency
You should at this moment back off. My girlfriend rejected me because of my size (6 inch nbpel) and this really hurted me. Of course not everyone is like this, but there is an chance so get a bigger before you proceed.

Sorry, and hope this does not offend you. But… Yuor girl was a WHORE. If a girl cannot get off on a cock that is bigger than her vagina, then she is either looser then the loosest whore, or she is a bitch that wanted to hurt your feelings. Either way she did you wrong and most girls are not that way. If she wants to fuck, then fuck her. Just do it well, and she will not even think about the size. If your dont know how to do it well, then look up tantra and g-spot on this site, or wikipedia.

Current: BPEL - 7.438" EG - 5.375 (base EG - 5.688") FL - 4.250" FG - 4.438" [19.150 ci]

Future Goal: 8" x 6" (2 red bull cans stacked on top of each other)

"Give them nothing, but take from them everything."

This thread has been dead for a year, but I see that sandudan is still active, so maybe he’ll tell us what ever happened!

Horny Bastard

LOL. Yup!

Current: BPEL - 7.438" EG - 5.375 (base EG - 5.688") FL - 4.250" FG - 4.438" [19.150 ci]

Future Goal: 8" x 6" (2 red bull cans stacked on top of each other)

"Give them nothing, but take from them everything."

I just read the first post and skipped to go reply, as I have little time but feel it is quite important to reply to this one. In my opinion, it would be a HUGE mistake to try and not continue a relationship simply because of your size. Guys care a million times more about penis size then girls do, and so its a non-issue. If she is truly into you, then your size will not be a problem, as women can be pleased in so many ways, and your size can definitely please a women when used well (don’t ask me how though, because I myself am still learning :) ). I say, jump head first into the relationship, and let her wonder how you grew in size!!!

Gimli

Start: May 12, 2007 BPEL: 5.551" EG: 4.646" FL: 3.051" FG: 3.858" Please Fill Out My Survey: Click Me!

Now: July 13, 2007 BPEL: 6.250" EG: 5.500" FL: 3.346" FG: 4.488"

Goal: BPEL: 7.000" EG: 6.000" FL: 5.000" FG: 4.750"

Hey, guys!

I had forgotten about this thread. Now I’ll tell you what happened.

I did have sex with her and we are still together. I didn’t tell you how it went because it happened a few months after I started this thread and I was a little embarrassed about it.
At first I also had a big problem with my stamina (couldn’t last 5 mins), but it’s getting better now although the problem is not gone. I still have a lot to work on that. I always give her an orgasm before intercourse because this way I make sure I’m not the only one who has one.

I’ve always treated her good and we communicate a lot. I think this contributed a lot to our relationship (never underestimate this in order to have a good relationship with someone).

I haven’t gained much since I started this thread, but I hope I will gain more in the future and I hope she’ll be around to notice my gains because we are doing pretty good right now.

I never told her about my issue and I think she doesn’t care that much.

I’ve learned a lot from this site and I want to thank all of you for the good advice you gave me and for the information I got from reading these forums!

Thank you all !

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