So is this rare or something

So i don’t know what to call it so Ill just describe it. But from the start. Ok so i was a virgin for a long time but now that Ive had sex with my girlfriend(was a virgin too) I know some more about sex. Now to the point. So my roommates were talking about having sex. They were saying how they hold there cum so that they can go for a long time. I asked why they would hold it and stuff like that. They looked at me as if i was stupped. I told them that when i have sex. After a while I come In side of her and I just keep going untill I come again. And that i dont get soft after I come. They said everyeone gets soft after they come and thats why they hold there come. I said that I dont get soft and i dont hold my come and that I come multiple times. They thougth I was lying or something so I just stoped talking to them about it. I told my girlfriend about this and we looked into it and I think this may be rare or something. Can someone tell me more about this please.

To this day I’m much like you. Don’t worry about your friends. I can only go two or three times as I go older. Just keep enjoying your partner.

I would say it’s somewhat rare. The time that it takes to regain erection after ejaculation varies by person, age, health and other things. You are on the immediate side of the spectrum. On the other side of the spectrum are guys who may go soft for hours. Many young healthy men may take like 10 minutes. Everyone seems to be different in that aspect and you seem to be on the super short end of the spectrum since you don’t go soft.

I enjoy her every chance I get. :)

I can do it easily on dostinex. Otherwise it takes me a hour or two.

Your friends sound immature and stupid to me.

On topic:
You probably have low prolactin levels. Enjoy the benefits my friend.

http://www.natu re.com/ijir/jou … l/3900823a.html
http://www.ente lechyjournal.co … _after_sex1.htm

P.S. Hehe, Dostinex is a prolactin inhibitor… Good to know. :)
P.P.S. If you don’t mind me asking, why do you actually take Dostinex, mate?

Don’t panic. Be happy. The limp period most men have after orgasm is called a refractory period. I don’t have one, either. It’s a benefit. And, no, guys who do have a refractory period will not believe you if you tell them you don’t. Neither will any woman, until she has had sex with you. I speak from experience on that. I am 42 and I have always been this way.

Same here buddy, no refactory period at all. 6 Orgasms is the most I’ve had, by then my ex was done with hers and got exhausted. It’s good and bad, as I have never been tired from sex -.-” I was never fully satisfied as I could go for more and she couldn’t and it was hard to sleep next to her cause I would be excited.

I feel a little stupid for not know what that period of time is called. But then again i dont have a refractory period,so why would i know. The only times I have a refractory period was. When I was like 14 and the frist two times I had sex and the frist time I had sex without a condom. I had those refractory periods when i was having sex because It felt so good. So is not having a refractory period uncommon?

Wow 6 times the most Ive done is 2. Because we always have to stop so we can get back to campus. :( But I went for 5 when I was masturbating before.

Actually, it’s most common to have a refractory period. That is why most people will not believe you if you tell them you don’t.

Me too. But that is because it takes me a long time to cum. It took all day for me to have two orgasms, the times I have. But orgasm isn’t the best part of sex, so I am not usually worried about going for number two. That’s a bonus. Only happened with one woman, T ( that I have mentioned in other posts ), but then her endurance was far superior to other women’s…and she was hotter than the pits of hell :) My goal, during sex, is pleasing my partner as much as I can, so I enjoy the after orgasm sex, even if I don’t cum. Plus it feels more intense after you cum, I think.

Well, I always have done kegels but in a rapid way, I never used to hold then and still don’t. I thought it was because of that, that I was like this.
Someone did say something about having low prolactin levels, don’t know. Well, my average was 3 orgasms but when my girl was on her period id get super excited and I would have one like every 5-7 minutes it was a bit crazy and much more when each time she was about to cum I did! So she got on top, and that helped me and her! XD

I can go for more, but she never lasted that much. Always on her third big trembling Orgasm, she was done. Didn’t matter if I gave her those in minutes or hours. Third one = No more fun for me. =.=

And yeah, love is about pleasing your partner, not using her vagina as a masturbatory tool.

I’ve found that in my mid 20’s I could go a long time before ejaculating. This would definitely benefit the girl. So I found myself beginning to aim for her pleasure during sex and just holding off myself.

Some girls take a long time to orgasm and some not as long. Some are multi orgasmic and come very quickly. ( I married one of those ).
Often I do remain hard after ejaculating and can keep going. Occasionally I find I can come twice myself. Never more than that.

Other times I just stay hard and can keep going without ejaculating again.

I think I’d like to have higher dopamine levels/ lower prolactin and enjoy more orgasms myself. Although the woman I’m with now has one, or two orgasms and she doesn’t want anymore. Occasionally she’ll go for three.
That’s usually when I have two, if time permits, because it usually takes me at least another 10 minutes to orgasm again.

Hey StichInsGluck, How’s it going? Can you please read the Forum Guidelines. It is ‘I’ not ‘i’. We also have a spell check button at the bottom. I can go twice with out going soft, but lately I have had a hard time to continue the second time around not because I go soft, because I am starting to get too tired. I happen to be 50 years old. May I ask how old you are? Young guys tend to stay harder for a long period of time. My problem is after I cum the first time and am not able to continue for the second round, I have to deal with an erection for about 8 to 10 minutes.