I chose to stop actively gaining. Check my stats; every woman I’ve been with has said, “You have a big cock.” Yet, some on this site consider a 7.5” BPEL x 5.25” MSG x 5.5” BG not big enough. And for them, that’s their reality. However, my concern is now far more to do with EQ than gaining. In fact, I just do “maintenance”.
Really, I don’t need to get any bigger. My current partner is an experienced woman, I’m sure no less than 30 or 40 previous partners. Has she had “bigger”? No question! Statistics will bear this out. But she’s with me now, and clearly a larger penis does NOT make a relationship. She almost always says, “You know, your cock is huge,” or “Fuck me with your big cock!” I NEVER solicit any woman’s opinion on the size of my penis. I don’t even worry about the size of my partner’s ex’s penis’. In fact, sometimes I’ll even fantasize about her being drilled with a bigger penis. Just a fantasy. Of interest, her sex toys, which she had before we hooked up, are, if anything, “average”. And she’s had a baby. For her, she gets off with me bottoming out inside her, contacting her CDS. So, I figure for her at least, any greater girth is not the issue.
I want to emphasize that EVERY woman I’ve been with in the past three or four years has volunteered the information that my penis is large. Most of my ex’s in that time were late twenties or early thirties, and therefore experienced to a fair degree.
So I have found my peace, defeated those penile demons of insecurity, and learned to enjoy what I bring to my relationship. Life is grand. And it’s not all about the penis.
Age: 42 Start date: July 14, 2004 Non-BPEL 5 5/8"; Erect girth, mid shaft, 5", base 5 1/4"
Current stats: BPEL 7.5"; Erect girth, mid-shaft (MSG) 5.25", base (BG) 5.5"