Originally Posted by BigFatLuvRocket
Originally Posted by Mr. Happy
You don’t see anything contradictory about telling someone “size doesn’t matter” on the one hand and then pointing them to a penis enlargement site with the other?
To whom are you directing this question?
I took the quote from the guy directly above the post you quoted ( Grief_ ), but I was making a general statement with it for all reading to consider.
Forum much?
I ask, because I thought it was fairly obvious, and it is my habit to quote folks if the comment I’m referencing isn’t within a post or two of my own; sort of unspoken forum etiquette, if you take my meaning.
Originally Posted by BigFatLuvRocket
That may be your perception. There is nothing mixed about being ok with one’s penis size, but wanting to make it bigger. Size does matter if a man chooses to give his size the power to define him. In my opinion, I’m no more or better of a man because I’ve enlarged my penis nearly 2 inches in length.
My perception is contextual, Mr. Rocket.
In the context of a young, naive, 14 year-old, who is coming of age and asking about size differences I think it’s fairly reasonable to assume that self-confidence at that age is, at best, still in a newly evolving stage. Particularly when it comes to self-image, the body, and anything related to the wonderful world of sex. Touchy subjects all in our culture.
It’s no mistake that westla, Cock Kent and I all have the same general point of view on this subject, as do others here I might add.
We, as adults, are considering the impact of what the suggestion of a Thunder's Place might have on someone that young.
As a man you may think you are no more a man with your gains, but then again you’re a man - so you have a different amount of life experience to put such things in perspective. Children are not typically as centered. Sex is brand spanking new to them at that age (or it should be anyway), and it is, by its nature, a loaded proposition for their self-esteem.
The psychological growth that challenges adolescence is matched only by the physical and hormonal changes.
Best to let children run that gauntlet free of any extreme ideas about body-modification - especially as it relates to sex.
To list just one example: We have older people here, people who are more centered, injuring themselves all the time because of over-zealousness.
Who wants to be the parent that has to explain the injuries their child might well suffer to…their spouse, the family doctor or, worse, emergency personnel? It’s possible such a parent could lose custody of their child under the wrong circumstances.
PE is loaded proposition for those under age and one best left completely alone.
You want to do your son a favor? Teach him to play ball.