Those who yet to see the secret garden

Hey all. I’m 18 and still a virgin. Any guys out there a virgin too?

Actually i’m doing PE to help boost my self-esteem and confidence.
I always feel too scared to make a move on a girl. This is probably because of my small unit. It’s 4.8” long and 3.8” girth. I can picture how disappointed the girl’s face would look. I don’t want girls to have sex with me just because they pity me.

Sigh… Sometimes i wish i wasn’t an Asian. Asians are small sized and i think they have smaller units compared to the Americans or Caucasians.

So well will the real young virgins please stand up.. please stand up, please stand up!

I shall support your thread and confess I am one as well. However don’t say sometimes you wish you weren’t an Asian.

I’m in your sad little club as well though so you are not alone.

I’m 24 and still a virgin too, oral included. No one is really interested in me, and I’ve pretty much stopped caring. Watch, now that I’ve posted this, I’ll probably end up with a girlfriend tomorrow (unlikely around here though).

I’ve dated and kissed, and all that fun stuff, but never really ended up with something worthwhile/good.

Hey guys, don’t sound too down. I’m 5.1x 4.75 , nothing to write home about. I must admit that I’ve had my share of sex, but it wasn’t easy for me at first. It took me a while to overcome my shyness, but I did. The key is to act like you have a 10 inch cock, even if you don’t. There are many things that you can do to improve you self confidence too. Go to the gym, get in shape, fix your teeth, wax your back hair. Gamblers learn as much as they can about a game to get an edge. You should be thinking the same thing, do any little thing you can to get an edge. It also help if you spend more time on PE than reading about PE. I have an incredibly beautiful girlfriend now and I don’t doubt I’m her smallest ever. Do I care? No of course not and neither does she. It also helps if you work on other parts of your sex game, like foreplay, setting the mood, caressing, sexual kissing. Most importantly though you can’t forget every small dicked guys Ace in the hole, LEARN TO GO DOWN ON HER LIKE A CHAMP. I don’t thing I’m reaching too far by guessing even if you did have a big dick, you still would be way to shy to talk to girls.

Don’t worry.

In Singapore the local girls will never know any different as they are used to smaller men.

I guess I’m in your club too.

I’m 18 and still a virgin. I have had the change to have sex a couple times before but I was too shy to do it [NBPEL 5.6” EG 4.25”

(BPEL 6.1”)].But things will change (and so will my unit hopefully :p ).

Well anyways i hope to get a 6” length and 4.5” girth after a year of PEing. I’m sure by then my confidence will increase. Would anyone here rather be a Asian than an American?

I was super small for most of my life. I waited until I was 22 until I first had sex. The reason I waited so long was not because I was worried about my size. I just had this “wait until marriage mentality” up to that point.

This girl really liked me and I have to honestly say that I never thought about this issue at all. She never made me feel small and I never thought I was small at the time.

The internet has been a blessing and a curse. How do you know you have a problem until someone tells you that you have a problem? Now that I’m aware that my penis is under-sized, I’m doing what I can to change that, but that really only became an issue for me about 5 years ago! Prior to this, I never really thought about it.

I think this is because I had no point of reference. Now because of the internet, you can see what’s possible and you immediately feel that you lack something.

As far as shyness, I agree with 9inOrbust84, that there is more to being confident than a big penis. I’m not saying that it won’t help, but work on your personality. Believe in yourself. Have a passion and follow it. This is what is attractive to girls.

I may as well say I’m also a virgin.

To the guys who say that their size effects confidence, I have an 8 x 6 penis, but I’m not confident at all about myself.

By the way, Americans aren’t just white, but Caucasians are.

8 x 6 .. That is the size I would like to have in a few years :p . What was your starting size?

Around 7.6 by 5.9. My current precise (ish) measurements are 8.1” BPEL by 6.2” EG.

The secret garden?? Haha sorry bro.Have sex with girls, your dick isn’t the only thing they want. I like a nice little ass and big tits on a girl, but it doesn’t mean I didn’t screw around with girls with smaller/bigger features. Go out and have some fun. If there is some advice worth giving, keep you head up high, and walk/talk with some confidence.

Because it really is that simple ladies and gentlemen…

I think for most guys it is. It’s just not easy for guys like me.

In my case I don’t have a really small penis but I just don’t have confidence. All the girls I find attractive I think see me as disgusting. So I’m too much of a pussy to approach them or say anything.

And the only girls that talk to me or show interest I don’t find physically attractive in anyway or form.

But to put it simply I got no game and no confidence so my dick will continue to stay in my boxers where it belongs.

Amen bro! That’s my life story. I think it has to do with where I live though more than anything- most people around where I live are unfriendly.