Using Proportional hierarchy, how big should you be?

There has been a lot of discussion on Thunders over the years as to how BIG you should be:

To be a porn star

To please your wife or lover

To assuage your size fretting

To please your ego

I am merely posing the question of proportional hierarchy as to evaluating how large you should be minimally in comparison to other parts of your body for a pleasing and reasonable relationship. Several threaders have hinted that genitalia should have hierarchical meaning based upon the importance of the use of the body part but also its relationship, proportionally, to the whole body. “Keirs” has requested whole body pictures with that in mind but with few takers. Most of us are here for bigger units—not for pleasing bodily relationships. Posters have objected to Keirs and promoted the idea of penis pics only. Forget that many would not submit pictures for fear of discovery.

There have also been discussions of proportional relationships of and within the penis itself—perhaps engaging the ” golden mean” as to width to length as it were a classical column.

Forgetting all that, what can be said that is reasonable? Well, maybe we should think as an artist and as a man of science at the same time…like the DaVinci of the proportional man-in-the-circle or that of the proportional man in the Durer litho.

Assuming a reasonable BMI,
(15 or less), you are naked in front of a mirror:

Placing your hands on your thighs with thumbs extended and next to your flaccid penis, if your penis is smaller than either of your thumbs, that should be the definition of “micropenis” from a proportional standpoint. No matter how much importance given by science of “opposing thumbs” in the developement of homo-sapiens, that does not trump the fact of the importance of the the penis as a tool of human perpetuity. It is fitting that your penis be larger than your thumbs. How much larger?

Now looking downward to you feet and appraising your size in girth to that of your big toe, considering use, as above, is it reasonable that your flaccid penis be at least as girthy as your big toe or larger? Indeed , I would hope so. (Big toes, as sex objects, are tethered together as a sensual trick in brothel lore but only as an adjunct to penis pleasure.) How about flaccid length? Returning to your extended fingers on your thighs, I would assume it to be reasonable on a Summer day that your flaccid length be at least as long or longer than your longest, (the middle), finger.

Any sizes smaller than what is outlined above, I think, is an open invitation to PE and the realm of the possible.

I am a newbie at PE but I am only doing this primarily to please my lovers and increase my size. How big do I need to be to please my lover? Well I have been with someone who said it’s too small, I have been someone said it hurts and have been made to stop, and I am right now with someone who is pretty satisfied with it and reaches orgasms often. I am 5”NBPEL x 5.15” girth. In my case I am just going to be happy with any gains that I can get. But I do realize there is no answer that even I have as to how big should I be for myself. I just know this: Bigger.

Good thread bro. I think Pleasing your wife would be fair enough. I have made some Experiment On some partners, With Toys. Three toys to be exact. One 5.1 - second 6.5 - third 6.8 inches. Surprisingly They really cum hard with 5.1. How I don’t know. And non of them like the big one.

In my point of view, Girls get carried away with big Thing, Not all but most. And most Don’t know what big or small is. Each woman has a different definition of big or small. Sometimes 5 inches length or girth could be huge for some. Now the issue is do not really care about what your penis look like, Big or small. The most important thing to me is the actions of it. I do really not need more then 6 girth.

PE should be done to make things better. Not because someone gave you a negative comment. Every time you look at your self you will see your self small. No matter what. It’s nature of a man, You won’t see what others see. I see my self small, But my partner see it very big.

If we watch the back scene of a porn movies, we will literally understand how much these girls fake things, How much they cry from real pain, And how much they hate big cock. I’m not saying big/small is good nor big/small is bad.

But lets have something decent And do PE to make things better Not because of a stupid porn movie we watch on Saturday night, And then we decide to be big. I advice all people to watch the scene behind the making of porn movies. My heart breaks when I watch it. And guess what I prefer to watch amateur Movies Now. PE will make your penis look good, Hang good, For visual effect, And give you some extra length and girth erected. But in the end You only need a dick that will satisfies at least your wife.

I’m not trying to hijack your thread but it’s good to pinpoint on some stuff. Because a lot of guys are not realistic. PORN IS FAKE.

My Friend, Never ask how big should I be, Ask what shall I do to please her. Reaching orgasm has nothing to do with your length. As long as your 3 Inches where you can reach her G-spot Then no problem. With each size you will have advantage and disadvantages. One of yours is your can’t get all sex positions in easy way, I have post a thread Title How to give her the best orgasm of her life. Check and apply it. You will know It’s not how big, It’s what you do.

To be a porn star: anything over 7 nbp x 6

To please the wife: I please the wife now, but she seems to cum harder when I am pumped up a little, so I will continue to increase until I don’t see that anymore. Will she cum even harder on a 6.5 inch girth in a few years? I don’t know.

Size fretting: I’m actually OK with my size now.

Please my ego: I would want to be in the top 1% of the population. Probably 7 nbp x 6.

To be a porn star - 8x6 -

To please your wife or lover 6.5 5.

To assuage your size fretting 7 x 5.5

To please your ego flaccid hang 5 x 4

The only one the matter is 7 x 5.5

I really don’t want to be a porn star, but my understanding is, that at 7 inches long erect I could be, though probably not a leading actor.

I pleased my wife at 5.75 x 4.5. She cums harder now that I am 7 x 5 and she says it is better. She feels bad saying that, but I have told her that now that I am bigger, my feelings aren’t hurt.

I can’t say that I ever fretted over size, though sometimes I wanted more. I am 46 years old, in my entire sexually active life I have had one woman tell me I was too small, but then again, she had a five gallon bucket for a pussy. That was a consensus reached by 5 of us in my Army unit in Germany that all slept with her. That being said, I want to be 7-7.5 x 6. I don’t want to be 8 inches long or more. My wife says that now, at 7, I touch her cervix, part of that is probably my PA piercing, which adds about 3/8”. It touches her cervix, but does not mash into it. When that happens, I have gone to far. I enjoy being able to penetrate her fully, and don’t want to lose that.

Flaccid, when it is warm, I am a tad under 5 inches long. Haven’t measured my girth flaccid since I gained, I suppose I should, but it can’t do anything in that condition but look pretty, and my wife already says I have the prettiest penis she has ever seen.

No she won’t cum hard, The secret is in you. You can make her cum hard as hell without big size. Doing it for ego is good thing too. But I’m still insisting that you don’t need big size to make her orgasm hard.

Porn stars or no, there are relatively few folks with 6” girth.

Most porn stars seem to fall in the 5” inch range with some going above 5.5”.

I’ve got a 6 inch girth!! Woop! around/above 6.25 near the base and midshaft. Ironically my thickness makes me feel short :/ I’m 7.5 on the best of days and 7.25 on average I’d say. I still wish I was bigger. The grass is greener on the other side I guess.

If I have your size, I will never do PE :)

Congratulations. You can do porn.

And you’d be one of the big guys.

Of course, the truth is anyone can do porn. All you need is a camera.

This is much more common than your girth is, actually.

Self-acceptance is a wonderful thing. It’ll happen when it happens. I think PE in such cases is like going to the gym: there doesn’t necessarily have to be anything wrong; self-improvement is its own reward. Just keep it in perspective.

It is. Our competitive nature is hard wired, I guess.

Thank God for Thunder’s, eh?

Good thread. I would like to be bigger as the better the ego the better performace I would think. …..

Porn star: 8x6

Pleasing wife or lover at least with my fucking style: 6.5x5.25

To assuage my personal size fretting and to make sure she doesn’t forget my cock ever!: 8 x 5.75

To please your ego flaccid hang 6x5