Weird condition

Hey guys I have a very weird condition. About six months back I had oral sex with this girl ( unprotected) who looked diseased a week later I started seeing my meatus getting swollen on and off. Is this normal?

So I got a vs test done and it was negative and recently I went to a urologist , but when I showed him my meatus was not swollen at that time . He said everything looks normal . But the problem is still there and it fucks up my day everyday cause some friend of mine told me any disease related to the penis will lead to ed . Guys please help me out .

Hey guys the symptoms are inconsistent swelling of meatus , sometimes it’s swollen and sometimes it’s not. Frequency of boners reduced, feel like peeing more often . Sometimes a thin layer of transparent discharge seen on the meatus (not sure if it’s pre cum) and the urine test showed pus in the urine.

I would go somewhere that specializes in STD’s. I’m not sure where you’re located, but you can probably even find a clinic who’ll test you for STD’s for free. I’ve found where I am (a rural area of Pennsylvania), the people at these various clinics are much nicer to deal with as far as STD concerns anyhow. You might try places that specialize in family planning (Family Health Council does it here) or the Department of Health.

Good luck, and hopefully it’s nothing serious, but most STD’s that would present like that I don’t think are and would be easily treated.

I already had an std test done twice and both were negative, I also showed my penis to a urologist and he said it was normal .

Probably because it IS normal.

If you have done required tests I think you have nothing to worry about. How did the girl look like diseased?

I just don’t understand, that if the girl had so big symptoms from some std, that she looked diseased, why you then had sex with her?

I have no answer to your question j , she was a 9 out of 10 so I couldn’t resist. I realise the tests have cleared most of the doubts but even then I cannot understand the swellings of meatus . And guys my friends are like any untreated disease related to the penis will cause impotence. Should I take a test again?

Swelling of meatus could be just infection not std, anyway it should be treated also if it doesn’t go away.
Many std’s don’t show in tests instantly after infection. If I remember right AIDS for example can lurk for a half year to a year. So it is advisable to take more tests, but you may have to wait some time to be sure you don’t have anything.

Waiting a year without knowing do you have a disease or not is not pleasant, but that is why you shouldn’t play with these things. Use condom, if you don’t know your partner. Even in start of relationship it is advisable, that you both do std tests just to be sure.

Huh? And she still gets a 9 out of 10? I’m wondering what a 1 or 2 looks like to you.

I don’t know, that does some std cause directly impotence, but they can cause infertility, which is at least as bad.

That’s basically hogwash you are hearing. Sure, you wouldn’t want to have syphillis or gonorrhea and not treat it, however most of us have during our lives various forms of “non-specific” urethritis, infections that cannot be traced to a particular pathogen yet cause a lot of discomfort. We don’t get ED from these.

You’ve been cleared by the urologist. Try to relax. If the discharge you are seeing is clear, it’s pre-cum.

No wonder, with some of the PE things you are doing to your cock, that your meatus is swollen now and then.

Thanks avocet that made me feel so much better. But really is urethritis common?