Why did you start PE?

We are all here because we want a bigger penis, but some of us have specific reasons for doing PE. Being 19 with a penis under 6” in my generation seems like a curse. It has held me back from losing my virginity SO many times just because of how self conscious I am about my size. But I personally got serious about PE after I heard one of my friends make fun of another guy’s penis. This guy was constantly hitting on her in a very sexually-aggressive way, but she always ignored him. One day while I was with her she showed me all the messages he would send her, and she decided to reply and mess with him so maybe he would leave her alone. She was “flirting” with him and asked how big his penis was and he replied “about 5 1/2 inches”. She just laughed and told me “wow, with a penis that small I don’t know how he can be so cocky” (He was always saying how he could make her feel like a woman). With my penis being about his size I said in his defense (and in mine) “But isn’t that about average for most guys?”, and she said that it wasn’t “average” for her. But what really got to me was hear her say “I don’t wanna be with him and have to ask if it’s in yet” while she laughed. I played it off and laughed with her too, but deep down it felt like it was me who she was making fun of. After that day I got serious about PE; I had tried it before, but never found the motivation to go through with it. I don’t wanna be the guy that gets made fun of behind his back for not meeting girls’ expectations about penis sizes.

What about you? Why are you here?

Damn, I feel your pain man. What was so funny with me is there was a rumour going around while I was in high school that I had a huge cock. I had a female friend who I was extremely close to. We would talk about anything. Favorite porn, her pussy, my dick, other dicks, other pussies, emotional stuff. Literally anything. Made out a few times but we never went out or boned. Then one time I decided what the hell, I want to smash her before I graduate. We were talking about sex and she mentioned how all the girls like talking about my dick and how they all think it’s huge. Don’t know where they got that idea. Maybe cause I worked out and had the best body according to what they told me. A big dick to go with it might have made sense.

Stopped me dead in my tracks haha she asked me how big I was, I just brushed it aside and told her to leave it to the imagination.. I never dated a girl from my school since that day. I bet they all still think I carry an anaconda haha

Anyway, that story plus the stereotype that black guys are huge got to me. I wanted to get to 7 inches so that I’m at least considered “average for a black guy”. I did and even passed it. Now I’ve just gotten greedy and want more otherwise I’m totally happy right now. I swear when it comes to PE, black guys have it rough. There’s a lot of pressure.

The best advice I can give you is stay committed to this. There is light at the end of the tunnel.

All I want is a penis that is ranked A on the chart located at the penis size debate website (or in other words, 7.75” BPEL and 6.5” EG). Right now I’m at 6” BPEL and 5” EG, so attaining my goal would give me a large boost in confidence and self-esteem. By the way, rank A denotes the ideal penis size for the average women, according to numerous women who emailed their preferences to the site owner. I asked a girl what she thought about that ‘ideal’ size, and she said it was about right. Oh, and my goal is the average of all the rank A penis sizes, making that size THE most ideal in my opinion.

The owner of that site admitted that he basically made the “results” up himself.

Oh my God, I just did a Google search to try and prove that and when I started reading about this ‘Ed’ guy I fucking face-palmed so hard. It’s funny because if I had done a thread title search I would’ve found a bunch of them discussing his website. Wow, what a great way to further fuck with men who are trying to figure out a goal for themselves. Thanks a lot Thunder, I appreciate it. From now on, my goal is to be able to suck myself off haha.

The primary goals when starting PE 14 months ago were to improve EQ level and regain experiencing morning wood. Secondary goals included (1) attempting a BPEL of 9 inches and (2) gaining NBPFL.

These goals have been partially achieved. EQ level has improved. Hopefully this will continue with time. The same can be said for morning wood. The secondary goals are works in progress. The BPEL has increased by .5 inches, and the flaccid length has increased by an average of .75 inches. The NBPFL varies somewhat according to the ambient temperature as well as the level of activity recently experienced. There have been times when the NBPFL has been as long as 7.25 inches.

Indications are that all of these goals will continue with the continued application of the processes involved in PE. Only time will tell.

I was a very late bloomer and I got a hand job from a girl when I was about 13 (before my puberty) and she went around and told everyone how small my dick was, that left a scar in me. Since then I hadn’t really thought about my size, just accepted that I wasn’t very big and I had never heard anything else. When I met my current girlfriend she started saying how big I was all the time and that kind of revived my insecurities about my size because it felt like she only said that to make me happy. I later discovered that she said it because I could really hurt her when we have sex both because of my girth and length.

But my insecurities wasn’t settled by that fact and when I accidentally found a document about Jelqing in an old PuA folder I was about to erase I started googling and found this site.

Two reasons:

1. Strong EQ at all points. I’m working on this by exercising my body as well as my penis. I have had several start/stops over the years after gaining some initially (which has stuck, by the way). But last January, between shoulder surgeries, I had restarted and was being woke up at night by raging hard erections. I want that all the time naturally.

2. I want my wife to crave sex because of how good my penis feels inside of her. Right now girth is a big letdown for me. I flat out asked my wife one time which she think would be better for me to pleasure her, length or girth. She said length. I think girth would help based on some other foreplay things we do. So I am aiming for only about 1” longer but nearly 1” bigger around to really fill her up.

I want a larger flaccid for cosmetic reasons mostly. That’s why I started at least. Now it’s more a matter of showing myself that this really works. Haven’t had any results yet but still going strong at it!

I can agree on this point!

Somehow the bulge means a lot to me as well - however just started with PE for real three days ago, so I better come up with more motives.

For me, PE was started because I went through a bad patch with, my now, wife and my overall health which affected the health of my penis.

Erection quality starting dipping, I dropped overall size and my sex drive was reduced. Not to mention my physical health was quite dire, I was overweight, eating poorly and looking a mess.

‘M not sure how I came across PE but I did and am very thankful for it.
Soon after I got back into good shape, hit the gym and stuck to a steady PE routine and worked on things with my partner and got my act together.

Best thing I ever did.

You can see my size increases over time in my signature but that doesn’t tell the full story of this PE journey we’re embarking on. It will, if you let it, completely revolutionize your life, your views, how you approach other humans, the way you sleep, eat, think, EVERYTHING!
And in a very positive way. I may slip off the bandwagon from time to time and eat some junk food, skip workouts, get into some poor eating habits but never more than a month or two then that PE voice starts creeping back in telling me I need to jelq, heat wrap, stretch, reduce belly fat so my penis looks bigger and be more attractive to my wife (and others who care to admire)

This year I’ve decided to get a 6 pack. Why? Because it will go well with my 8” BPEL x 6” meg penis and will make it look even bigger!!

At first glance it may seem a purely superficial pursuit but deep down it comes from the ideal of being the strongest version of myself possible. In a lot of ways I feel PE sparked that ideal within me.

Thank you PE/Thunders. I owe you one ;)

I started cause I believe the sex would be better than it already is !

I guess most of us started PE because we are/were unhappy with the size of our baby-making tool. Well, like ‘aggolb’ said ” black guys have it rough”. I’m above 6ft 4in with a 6.21” penis. A college football player with a very good physique yet I can’t summon the courage to have a serious relationship that would lead to sex with a girl. Last time I did, I regretted it, ” I thought you would be bigger” the girl said. Felt like dying.

If all the testimonials in this forum is anything to go by then my life is about to change for the better. My motivation is over the roof .

Hi cyanomod,

At 6.21” you are over average, so I guess this particular girl bought into the big black cock porn. One bad comment can be terribly damaging to the ego but I would guess that you got unlucky and that the next girl would not make a similar comment. Having a large physique sometimes means that people expect everything to be large but any girl with a little experience will not see you as small.

That said, you are in the right place to gain but watch out because that source of motivation can be unhelpful in PE.

Well said Memento.

Cyanomod, you have to find a more ‘wholesome’ and positive reason for diving down the PE rabbit hole rather than a negative comment from a misguided size queen that will tear you apart if you let it.

Also, the very best of luck with your endeavours. With your type of physique (large/athletic/muscular) there’s a good chance you could be an easy gainer.