Has anyone else at TP had ligation surgery, or been told they surely have leak?

Just curious if I am the only one on this entire forum that has had this surgery done. If nobody has had the venous ligation surgery, is there anyone else that has been told by a urologist that they absolutely have a venous leak? I’d like to bounce a few thoughts off of people, but if I’m the only one in this boat then that would be a little difficult to do :-/

How did it go?

I still don’t really know yet. It’s been six weeks since the surgery, and erections still hurt. The scar tissue has caused my Dick to return to its 6x4.5 beginnings from many years ago. I might just be pessimistic, but it still seems to be leaking. Don’t think it worked. All I want to do is PE, but not sure if I ever can again. Seeing the doc this Friday and I plan on asking him about stretches and such.

How long did he say before it would be healed and you would see results?

Isnt having a working penis a better goal than doing pe? I’m trying to get this into my head anyway, I’d gladly not pe again if I could have my dick working normally again.

What’s wrong with your dick? What happened?

He said that I would be able to have sex after six weeks, but that it would really take 3 months for things to completely heal on the inside. So, technically I could have sex right now according to him, but my gf dumped me so that is easier said than done. On top of that, it still hurts when erect and I still have some stiches that have yet to dissolve, so I am not having sex yet. I haven’t even jacked off since July 12th. Its very hard for me to tell whether or not the surgery did anything because I was always able to get it up when I was alone (granted it deflated quickly, which it still does), but I feel like I need a blowjob or something to see if the surgery actually worked. Prior to the surgery, a girl would wrap her lips around my cock and I would get at best a 50% erection.

Yes, you are right that it is better to have a working dick that is average, than a big dick that doesnt work. However, I still don’t know if having my cake and eating it too are impossible. He told me that light stretching would be okay to relieve the scar tissue, so I figure light stretching could go a little further and lead to lengthening too. Very dangerous territory for me though, and I know the smart thing to do would be for me to just accept what I’ve got and never attempt to enlarge it again. I don’t know that I have the will power though. My stupid insecurities lead me to do stupid things, even when logically I know they are stupid.

If you could get fully hard on your own, what symptoms led them to conclude it was a physical rather than psychological condition?