Loss of Sensation Rubbery feeling

Marcus,

first off, jelqing with an almost full erection is self-destructive and counter-productive, to say the least. Take it easy and stop PE for an entire week. Let it rest, drink lots of water, take some vitamins and maybe use some PH neutral lotion on your dick.

You overdid it, Bro…

Next time…some common sense is in order. ;)

I’m curious about something… by “a rubbery feeling” do you mean a “numb” feeling? Or it’s just “puffier” or something?

If it’s a numbness thing, you need to take a rest and let it heal.

Yes numb, well more of a huge loss of sensation.

Aha! A little nerve damage probably then. You probably stretched too hard, I did the same thing. The feelings came back but the first night it freaked me out. I tried to masturbate and it would only get about 3/4 hard and wouldn’t cum. A couple days later it worked again, but that was no fun, believe me. Over the next two weeks or so the feelings all eventually came back, slowly. You might try a little gentle massage… maybe a little heat treatment like sitting in a hot bathtub would help speed healing. Eat good foods and maybe some extra vitamin C would help healing too. All you can do is hope it comes back and if it doesn’t in a few days, see what the doctor says. Tell him what you were doing, pulling or jelqing too hard and see what suggestions he has. I hope it comes back for you.

It’s a long term sustained effort, I discovered that you can damage things just with your bare hands by stretching, so it’s about being more gentle! Jelqing when it’s too hard is a big no-no too, I’ve seen lots of warnings about that. I don’t know how guys have problems keeping it hard enough while jelqing, my problem was always the opposite, it gets too hard jelqing, and I always have to wait for it to go down, or jelq at a real slow pace!

So it will come back?

It’s been like 4 days now I rreally can’t tell if it’s getting any better but I havent had any erections and if I try to massage it nothing either. No discoloration on my shaft and there is very little discoloration on the head. I am still kinda freakin out though. Thanks for the input electron. Things build up because I am very depressed and takin it out on my girl friend and family. I am so worried.

Should I kegel?

Marcus, can you get erections actually?

Marcus. Right now you are just wasting people’s time as you keep asking the same thing over and over again and still don’t really listen. Just let it rest. These kinds of things happen. It’s part of NPE. You will recover fully, don’t worry about it. I’d say that almost all of the more experienced PE’ers have had something like this at some point.

How do you know it is nothing too serious then? Well…

1) There was/is no sharp pain.
2) There is no discoloration.
3) You can get erect.
4) There was no prolonged restriction of blood flow.

It doesn’t really matter if you kegel or not, for your injury, but doing your kegels daily is good for you anyways.
Some light jelqing could actually be only good for you, promoting blood circulation, but with high erection level, it’s a big NO.

Sorry.

It’s okay. Just what I mean is that you gotta chill. Stop worrying about it. No reason to wreck your real life relationships because of this, either.

Marcus-

You say there is a little discoloration on the head… could you describe it better? Is it red spots from jelqing? Is it a gray color? Can it still get hard, or not?

My erection difficulty only lasted for about a day… the next day I was able to do “everything” again… but it was still a little numb for a week or two. If you cannot get hard or it has a gray looking color, yes swallow your pride and get to a doctor. I haven’t experienced anything like that and don’t know about it. Maybe some light manipulation, GENTLE jelqing or massage would help blood flow but I couldn’t tell you for sure.

Weak erections. A little grey discoloration right under the tip of the head. Hard to tell but it looks discolored.

Hmm… you might be right on the edge… if it hasn’t turned black and died I guess you’re ok. But turning gray is a warning sign that it’s having a hard time recovering I would think. I’m no doctor… but If I were in your shoes, I think I would forget stretching or jelqing until it recovers, and be good to it in the meantime. Just be good to yourself, eat well or get a multivitamin, get more vitamin C, and I think I would give it some heat and gentle massage. Get into a tub of warm water twice a day or get out the heat lamp or whatever you use. Massage it gently just to get blood moving around and “let it know you care!” It might take you longer to recover, a month or more maybe, who knows. Or just go see a doctor. This is a little beyond my experience, but that’s my best advice.

I think I am slowly getting sensation back but my erections are still very weak. I was with my girlfriend tonight just hanging out kissing and stuff but weak erections as to usually being rock hard when I am with her. I am going to see a urologist tomorrow. I wonder if he would be able to detect nerve damage. I just need my erections back to where they we’re. I hope he doesnt give me bad news. Still not sensitive and very hard for me to get aroused.