scar tissue / plastic surgery / self esteem

hi all.

I’m writing to address something that’s been bugging me for over a decade, hoping someone here might have some experience / insight.

When I was young (10 / 11?), I had a traumatic experience where my foreskin got stuck behind the head (too tight) and I needed to have a circumcision.

Ever since, I have had smallish scars and stitch marks, that have left a ring of scars, right where my foreskin was cut.

They don’t cause me pain, but when girls first touch my penis, I can sense (or think I can) them wondering what the texture is. I worry that they will worry that this is an std, or it will affect their enjoyment in bed. I feel less confident when receiving a blow job, for obvious reasons.

Now, ultimately, any girl who ‘really loves me’, a real girlfriend etc etc shouldn’t care about something like that. However, it really takes a toll on my self esteem and confidence in bed. I’m not a player, but would like the opportunity to hook up with a girl without worrying about her comfort level without having to give some unsexy explanation about a late circumcision.

I’m wondering if anybody has had a similar experience and/or had any luck with getting rid of scar tissue / healing / smoothing. Products? Operations?

Much thanks for any technical tips,

FW

be proud of it - battle scar and tell her what happened. dicks are ugly no matter what

Tell the chicas it is a radiation burn, then act surprised/upset that you told them. Say, “I’m really not supposed to talk about it, you are the first person I have ever told!” Then explain how much trouble you could both be in if anyone knows that you told her. Swear her to secrecy. Explain about the NSA and how Echelon works. Make sure she understands that it wouldn’t be just the two of you they would go after, but both of your families as well.

Hahaha Iamaru.YES!

Ha ha, true say!
thanks for the kind words.

I know some people on here probably have a lot of harder battle stories.
Anybody on thunders can laugh at my mini girth / big hole circumcision story (or cry maybe? ;)

10 years old:

I’m in the doctors office, on the bed. There’s a Doctor and a couple of nurses.
I pull out my thing for the surgery, and the doctor produces a bandana size surgery cloth. It has a hole cut in it (7” girth) for the operation area over my dick and he cracks a joke as he places it over me: ‘Perfect Fit’

Joke being, I was probably a tenth of that!

Size joke from someone who’s about to cut part of your dick off? Damn! It was funny though.

I wonder if the doctor wasn’t good, or if the job was hard because of my small size. If there is someone else who had a circumcision (before they hit puberty, I’d be interested to hear if they had healed perfectly).

In any case. Thunders is the best PE resource ever.

FW

Have you spoken to a doctor or surgeon about minimizing the scar tissue? That would be the thing to do.

Thanks!

I suppose I know this, and yet haven’t talked with a doctor in a long time.

When I first started having sex, my girl asked about the scars, and I went to see a urologist. He reassured me my scars were normal (from the circumcision), but I was so paranoid I had him cut a small piece of scar tissue (biopsy) and had it sent to the lab to be sure.

I guess I know deep down, a doctor / surgeon is the one to ask.

Maybe I was hoping for a magic healing power?

$Cha-Ching$

fw