I really need to be more sensitive!

Do not know if this will help you.

You can try and go over your routine.

.A couple of months ago I started experiencing this same problem.

And I went over my routine .The thing I changed is I made sure I did not get to much heat on my

Scrotum from the heat pad guess kinda cooking my balls .Changed the way I

Applied the heat .and the problem cleared up in two weeks.

Now am back to normal.

Ssta-kool that blog hits the nail on the head (excuse the pun). The Fleshlight idea is something I’m going to look at and I can now buy them here in Australia. The guy in the blog describes my situation perfectly and it’s good to know I’m not alone in this.

Started on the Ginko and will see what happens. Wonder if anyone else here has tried the Fleshlight thing?

Interesting, very interesting.

Affecting the testes and testosterone production, maybe? Any ideas?

I was putting the heat pad under my butt which also put the heat on the scrotum and balls.

Then up to my belly to warm up.and on high .I think to much heat.Started to have problems

With coming .My two loyal and faithful FWB ladies made the comment to me that I was not coming.

I already realized this .I was not having erection problem just getting off. Even after going after it for more than two hours .They were getting sore

And asking to please hurry cause they could not take it much longer.even with lots of lube.and no I never did get of .

Very frustrating.

I then started rethinking when this started and realized it started when I started warming up this way.

Started putting the heat pad on top with a towel and cleared up.

Made my two FWB happy cause they thought I was losing interest.

We all know when a good women can’t get yeah of they feel bad and we do not want this.

Has cleared up now and back to normal.

I want to add maybe two much heat cooking my ejaculation muscles

Or some other muscles.

I do believe it had something to do with to high of heat.

Well I’ve gone out and bought a swag of supplements and I swear I rattel when I walk. I have the Ginko Balboa, L-Arginine, Lecithin and Yohimbe so we shall see what happens.

I’m also going to invest in a Fleshlight …may as well go the whole hog!

Watch this space!

Shintaro I would love to read your updates as I have this same problem too.

Good! …well not good, but reassuring to know I’m not the only one in this pickle. I’ll keep you informed :)

Well I took the plunge and got myself a Fleshlight. Must say, it feels a bit weird buying a sex toy ….feel it’s akin to having a blow up doll with one of those O mouths.

Having said that, I’ve been using it for a couple of weeks and it’s quite neat! It’s not something I want to use long term, I’m just viewing it as a means to an end, the end being to get back a dick that excels at sprints and not at marathons hahahaha.

Anyway, I shall report back after a few more “dates” with my plastic friend.

Well after about 6 weeks use of the Fleshlight, I can nothing’s changed. Sensitivity is great with the FL and I can come very easily but take my “training wheels” away and unleash me on the real thing and it’s back to the same ol’ same ol’ . Happpened to me twice the last month and to make it worse, I was paying for it!

I’m taking the Ginko and Lecithin but ditched the Yohimbe as it just didn’t seem to do anything for me. What I have started taking is fish oil. I wasn’t aware of it’s properties until someone elsewhere alerted me to the fact that it can help in retarded ejaculation. Then I started doing some searches here and was suprised to read of fish oil’s abilities.

Watch the space!

Just want to say I have your problem and I sympathize.

The only known chemical condition linked to this is low-histamine but it turns out my histamine levels are normal. Make sure you do not use any SSRI type medicine, as that is known to contribute to delayed ejaculation.

It may be the death grip, but I think it is something more than that. We have a challenge in the way we are wired.

Back again with an update. I wouldn’t say things have been a raging success but maybe a slight improvement. The fish oil doesn’t seemed to have worked any magic. As I said previously, cumming with the Fleshlight isn’t a problem and I’ll keep ‘forcing’ myself to follow that regime :)

Have started hanging again and I’m still not sure if that’s a contributing factor i.e nerve damage? Just a thought.

Let’s keep this topic alive,
as even though progress can be very slow, the information can be vital.

In summary, this is what has NOT worked for me to speed up ejaculation:
- Fish oil
- Taking L-histamine to raise histamine levels
- Maca
- Horny Goat Weed
- Creatine
- Arginine
- Massive amounts of water
- Massive amounts of sleep
- Avoiding all porn and masturbation
- Taoist/Daoist approach of never ever ejaculating
- Walking or running
- Vegan diet

Of course, these things above may have helped men with other issues, but despite the endless promotion of some of these items by their respective fanatics, I must insist they have NOT helped me with this issue.

The *ONLY* things that may have helped me speed up ejaculation, albeit nominally, are:
- Doing the sex act earlier in the evening rather than after midnight (which is when she usually wants it, unfortunately).
- Not ejaculating in just the 48 hours prior to the event (going longer than that doesn’t really offer any cumulative effect).
- Edging (tugging/rubbing/stimulating penis without any release) during the 4 hours or so leading up to the event.
- Clearing my mind/Leaving behind any life worries (especially financial ones) before I’m with her.

I still believe the fault lies in body chemistry / receptor composition / endothelial function and if/when there is an actual pill that treats this directly (as of right now there isn’t, according to both my general doctor and my urologist) I will surely let people know on here, despite our being in the minority of men (supposedly most men’s problem is still premature ejaculation - the opposite of ours and something I can not relate to).

antoniorosa …. great stuff. Yep, most of your list is what I’ve been reading about as solutions and having tried a number of them now, they just don’t effect me at all. I must have some sort of weird metabolism or something. I just ordered in some 100mg Viagra (Sildenafil actually) thinking that maybe this might provide a spark. I’ve never had V before and expected my dick to jump to attention in 30 minutes but for the next few hours all I got was a slightly stuffy head but no hard on…go figure??

Tried no edging or any other stimulus for a week (which is a record for me!) but again, after this time, hard on - no problem…but beyond that I am just the Energiser Bunny who can go on and on!

One thing I notice is that when I pinch the skin on my dick, I feel nothing. I don’t mean grabbing “meat” but just the very top layer of skin. I can pinch this as hard as I like and not feel a thing. Sometimes there’s a bit of sensitivity but quite often I swear I could grip it with a pair of pliers and it wouldn’t hurt.

And the prem ejac thing…men with this problem wish they had our problem whilst we wish we had premature ejaculation problems! And yes, antoniorosa, I’m a bit like you in that for men with the prem ejac problem I sympathise with, but it’s a problem I just can’t get my head around.