This is my first post, but this thread is related to one of my issues. I will post my other issues in the appropriate threads. For consistency on this forum I believe I am BPEL 5.75 NBPEL 5.5 FL 3.25 and EG 4.75. I am 44, 5’7” tall, 180 lbs. I will do a better job measuring to be more exact. I feel I am a bit smaller than average, but just a bit. According to most surveys I am in the middle grouping. Only one woman in the 25 I have slept with has ever commented negatively. The rest came or seemed satisfied. Her comments when I was 21 were thoughtless enough to effect me for the rest of my life with frequent doubts.
I am seeking PE, but also have had more pressing ED problems, only in the last three and a half years, and only since my divorce. I just want to be a bit bigger than average and work 99% of the time. I’d be happy with BPEL 6.5 and EG 5.5 which seem to be modest gains. My life is pretty full with kid visitation, 3 jobs, and a new marriage. If I could do this with a pump and some lig stretches in a half hour a day, it would suit me just fine to gain .75 in length and girth over a year or two. I just cannot figure out how I can put over an hour a day into this. I have had very frank discussions with my wife, who was single until we married when she was 39, has slept with dozens of partners and swears she doesn’t want me to gain length because she has a weird shaped uterus and longer has hurt her. She understands that I want a confidence boost as far as what I feel, but insists she has great time in bed and I need no enhancement. I am sure though she wouldn’t complain about an inch or so.So not much motivation from her end, but acceptance.
The ED seems to be mostly in my head, not completely, some physical stuff is there as well. The physical definitely contributes to the mental. I do believe that some size gains and feeling bigger flaccid in my pants will help cure some of the head stuff. I have a cock ring (a few actually) which I use almost religiously. I have also turned to what my wife calls my “supplements.” This has included over the last three years many well-known and some not so well known herbal and pharmaceutical enhancements. Zinc, L-Arginine, HGW, Maca, Tribulus, Muira Puriens, Yohimbe, PT-141 (wow!), etc. Not all at the same time. I now do daily 5mg Cialis after visiting Urologist with complaints. It’s effect seems to have diminished over time. I have been taking it for about 18 months. I do have about a 85% success rate at hard enough for sex, but it takes a regimen of supplements and occasional delves into extras, like PT-141 and Yohimbe. I wish I could go back to simpler times when everything just worked..
The “active” ingredient in liquid Extenze for me (as well as other liquids, like Stamina-RX) is Yohimbe. I have only used the liquid Extenze. I regularly have some Stamina-RX on reserve in the medicine cabinet for times when I want an absolutely sure thing. I have definitely identified the friendly herb in these products as Yohimbe. It works TOO well for me. It is like a miracle drug. But, of course, there are problems. No free lunch.
I have taken Yohimbe as a pill (from GNC 112.5 mg), and other liquids that have it in it at about the same strength. Liquid seems to get into system faster. Same effect. Incredible wood, heightened desire, increased aggressiveness and confidence and unfortunately a pounding heart and no sleep for at least 16 hours. Especially if I drink caffeine after. When I would take the entire liquid bottle or pill, supposedly one dose, I would nearly have a heart attack. I can decrease the dose to 1/4 pill or bottle with almost same wood, less aggressiveness, but also less sleep problems, but they don’t go completely away. I cannot take at night without the chance that I will not be able to sleep and will lay awake happily remembering my session, but not sleeping.
I am wondering if anyone has a similar experience and knows what to do to get the erection enhancing effect of yohimbe without the “shakes and wakes”. Yohimbine? Something else? If I knew it would make my life so much easier.