Originally Posted by kingdong69
What about the guys in ‘porno’ or even on youporn homemade stuff that seem to have big glans for all there ‘sexual time.’ Do some people have genetically easily big pumped up glans whereas other like me only on certain points?
Yes, some people have bigger body parts than others. Everyone is different. And porn stars are selected for their big dicks, so don’t use them as “normal” when making comparisons.
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Or even the guys that post here with pics of big glans. If I get a huge glans hardon by the time I get the camera etc ready my glans will have shrunk.
That’s not unusual. It difficult to maintain an erection and handle a camera at the same time.
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In saying that though when I smoke a bit mary jane my hardon seems to stay erect and fuller easier maybe cause I relax and become sexually focused and blood stays in easy whereas I normal stress too much about wanting my dick to be big and hard which in turn has the opposite effect?
Stress can certainly be a factor. Or it may be a combination of stress and your particular anatomy. Some guys have a small glans, others may not be able to pump much blood into it. Stressing out won’t change it. As long as you can get an erection and please your partner and yourself during sex/masturbation and can produce semen, then your plumbing is working normally.
Worrying about a small or soft glans is just creating a problem that, in the end, isn’t really a problem as far as function is concerned. It’s only a “problem” in how the thing looks. Too many of our members spend way too much time worrying about what other people think about their dick even if it functions well. While many of the PE exercises can change the appearance (and even improve the function) of the penis, there are some parts, such as the small or soft glans, that do not respond in the same way. You just have to accept it and move on.