First off, this was the topic that made me want to join this forum, but I’ll be definitely be exploring the other topics.
Always had somewhat sensitive nipples, and during my puberty I had a pea sized hardness in both of my nipples. Family doctor said it was of no concern, and the lumps did fade away.
My nipples project naturally, and while it’s not much, a little shy of a quarter inch, they do tend to rub on the inside of my shirts, and are very visible in tee shirts. So, right off the bat, I’m gay, though I was happily married for 27 years, it was after her passing that I realized that I had been actually gay, but location, the times and being the eldest (of five) had certain family obligations. We were into mutual nipple play, and that did excite me. Even after coming out I brought nipple play as part of my love making skills. But for many of my dates, they had flat or recessed nipples, which I tried to tempt out.
But I began exploring my own nipple play by buying a pair of clamps and a snake bite kit, which the clips did add an extra edge. It was the kit that had more of a significant, though temporary effect. I did get a blister every once in a while, but they healed quickly, if they didn’t pop. And, until recently, that’s all I did. I started into a bit of cosplay/cross-dressing with starting to purchase bras and panties, from companies that offered man sized and accommodating dainties. This lead to me leaving the snake bite kit on longer, and even after a couple hours of them on, and some more blistering and tolerable pain, I started down a rabbit hole. I had purchased a pair of 1” diameter vacuum cylinders, and while I got pleasure with them, they really tore up my areolae, the size was nice, but too many blisters with many of them popping. I immediately went into self care mode, and discovered part of the issue was the cylinder size, so I got the 5/8” size cylinders, and after a couple days of care, I tried them out, and didn’t get any more blisters, though I still had scabbing from the first cylinders. I used Cerave healing salve and covered my nipples with gauze pads to protect them from my work tee shirt. I leave the smaller cylinders on for about the same time, and while I get some serum, I haven’t gotten any new blisters. I’ve been using water based Boy Butter to lubricate the cylinders and my nipple, and tighten them to where the pain starts and back them off a quarter turn. I tighten them back up after a while. When I take the cylinders off, I have a very conical appearance and the nipple projects 3/4”. But it is temporary, however, the rabbit hole lead me to a porn clip of a guy using Supple Nips and explaining how to properly use them. I immediately thought that that is what I’m looking for to effect a more permanent projection. I ordered the size 1s, as that is where the video said to start to minimize any damage to the nipple. I should have them today and potentially break them in to where I can have them on during work either tonight or tomorrow. I’ll post a follow-up, hopefully with some results, as soon as I can.
Part of the rabbit hole took me into breast feeding care sites, and learned that a hot water compress can do wonders for the scabs left over from the blisters. I originally treated my areolae with a first aid ointment and a moisturizer, but it didn’t seem to do much until I started using the hot compress. And I started using lanolin nipple cream that I picked up from the baby area, at a local store. These two things seem to help my nipples recover faster, and I can lubricate the Supple Nips with the lanolin cream. So that’s white I have to offer for self care.
And the rabbit hole got deeper.. Men can and do lactate. And it is possible to induce lactation, if you can get your body to produce prolactin. There are quite a few extreme ways that tells your body to produce this hormone, and they involve extreme human conditions or drug interactions, none of which I’m interested in doing. However nipple over stimulation can cause your pituitary gland to produce prolactin. This in one of the reasons I paying so much attention to my nipples, their care and stimulating them. The Supple Nips will more permanently enhance their size and make them more sensitive. I’ve also taken to massaging my moob (I definitely have some, not as much as I seen on others, but still more than many younger guys) and nipple, throughout the day, while watching videos, while driving and laying in bed. I have noticed a slight change in my breast size and I look like I’m starting to fill out the bras. With my areolae nearly healed, my nipples have taken on a pins and needles feeling, and boy is my penis reacting to that. I’m going around with a constant chubby. So with all this I took another step and buying a used breast pump. I understand the operation, as well as breast physiology. I won’t be taking any supplements, additional hormones or drugs, just the pumping to stimulate the nipple and the Supple Nips to protect and resize them, while at work. I also understand what changes I’ll have to make if I actually produce milk.
Again, I’ll update when I can.