20 yo recent problem.too fast and not hard

Recently me and my girlfriend have been having some trouble, mainly myself. I really find her attractive, she’s the sexiest girl I’ve ever been with and I think about her a lot. But lately when we have had sex, I ejaculate way too quickly and then after that I can’t get hard again. One night I was drinking and she made me mad and I couldn’t even get it up.

I am wondering if I should get this checked out or something? Is there anything I can do about this? I find it odd that they are on opposite ends here.premature ejac. Vs impotence..

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Thank you,

Seyz

Alcohol is known to cause such issues, so avoid heavy drinking.

Speaking with a Doc is always a good idea, if nothing else for calming anxiety. Out of specific health-related problems, your issues could be caused by many factors: stress and anxiety, just to say two.

A fast check of your posts here says me that you did PE in the past, so you are aware that Kegel’s could raise stamina. What about your PE work lately?

Yeah, I’ve actually been having a hard time - pardon the pun - staying hard lately. It sucks. I dunno what it is, but I think I’m just getting older and banging random girls just isn’t cutting it for me anymore. Maybe your dick is trying to tell you something? He tries to talk to me, but I just choke the shit out of him and slap a clamp down on him.

What kind of doctor should I even go to? I have been doing kegels also, but only for a short period of time.

I think you should speak with an Andrologist or an Urologist.

:D

Marinera is right, sounds like stress and anxiety to me, I have been with my girl 3 years and I still get stressed and anxious to the point where I can’t have sex with her.

Is there anything you can do about it ?

Well I haven’t figured out what to do about it yet, and it probably wouldn’t happen if I didn’t think about how it happens lol. I combat it by not masturbating for a really long time then I stay hard no matter what.

Does that work? Do you just not masturbate or not look at porn also?

Why do you want to look at porn without masturbating? Masochist? :confused:

Anyway, if you aren’t masturbating everyday, than masturbation isn’t likely a cause of your problems.

I actually have been masturbating everyday and I’ve been thinking about my girlfriend while doing it. This was very uncommon but she has been looking really sexy for the spring and I’ve just been doing it daily now.

Try masturbating less and doing Kegel’s everyday. See how it goes.

I don’t masturbate and I make sure not to look at any naked girls at all for a period and it helps 110% for me. Try what Marinera said and let us know how it goes.

Tell her after you cum the first time to suck your dick until your hard again, I’m sure if she does this you will be fine. Lay off the masturbation also between that and PE your dick may be getting tired.