RB,
I can hit bottom with her vaginally, but I don’t notice a bottom, so to speak, anally.
My thought is that I am too thin to do any real damage vaginally. I’m probably not putting much pressure on her g-spot.. But anally things are very tight. The feelings for her seem to be a lot more intense (usually painful).
That being said, she does have orgasms both vaginally and anally, although both are difficult for her (she comes close many times per session, though).
>> Thought I should add, I will not be able to test this out. My wife is dead set against anal… <<
Have you tried warming her up down there (ass) with your tongue? Just make sure she takes a shower first :) Also giving her a couple orgasms first will definitely help (they seem to be much more agreeable about anal if they’re horny as all hell). Also, if you manage to get to this point, definitely warm her up with a small (thin) dildo or your finger before attempting to put anything bigger in there and use a ridiculous amount of lube. Once she gets used to the small dildo she may be able to move up to something larger (like your cock).
My g/f was dead set against it as well until one day she out of the blue said she wanted to try it. Go figure.